ok maybe ill get in to what happened, in some other post, im too busy studying for final exams lol... [ grad student] but is anyones FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW FREAKING CRAZY??
each day i grow to dislike her (hates a strong word) more and more...and for ppl who know me i am not a spiteful/hateful person, i get along with everyone for the most part, am open-minded and so forth , i mean what im trying to say i dont have 'beef' with anyone i dont have problems or ever get in to fights with ppl etc....
but i just cannot stand my FMIL....shes so twisted, and crazy, i think she has mental issues.... she does one thing but says another...FH doesnt see this, because u know how women are sarcastic sometimes, say things with underlying meanings, make refrences, etc and so forth...
ive never told him bluntly i HATE ur mom, cuz i know that would hurt him, but sometimes i feel like saying seriously shes f----ing crazy!!!
he thinks his moms the best in the world... and i respect that (when i speak to him) i dont make comments (or try not to atleast) hold it in hard ...
but am i the only one othere???
if ur FMIL is nuts, how do you deal with it???
thanks...ps. the rest of his family is AMAZING!!! i love my future bro in laws...they are so funny, his dad's a great man too....its just her
thelastresort
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You are not alone! My FMIL is a great lady but she definitely has some issues that really upset FH and I sometimes. That being said, FH won't say anything to her either b/c of a whole variety of lame excuses. Confronting her would be for her own well-being but he sees it as 'badgering' her. I know how you feel and hang in there...or just move really far away!
luvabul
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moving far away from her sounds like ....
.......pure BLISS
FUTUREBRIDETOKEITH
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Trust me I fully understand how you feel.
dancerandchef
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I know what you are going through, I know what you are going through.
dancer: hugcry:
hunnybunnyxoxo
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Posted by luvabul
she never disrespects me.... especially not infront of FH, FH treats me even more like a princess around her, but its just her comments, she seems so thoughtless, careless, unexcited... we've never had verbal altercations or anything of that nature. just her behavior frustrates me. ex: told her REPEATEDLY to please give me the guest # list of whose coming from her side (cuz my parents are payign for the wedding) 5 months later were still at the same place, i told her im gona book my hall etc, i need to know...i dunno shes so lazzyyyyy....and she does NOT work, FH family is pretty well off financially, so shes home watching movies, or cooking, but hello this is her first son, eldest son, getting married...i thought she would have SOME enthusiasm, and i try to include her too.... but its funny when i STOP including her and stop telling her stuff, than shell start calling me or my mom to find out whats going on....
sorry, i can go on and on about so many lil things, but i guess LIFE is short...and we should jsut make the best of it, thanks to everyone who listened, i just needed to ventt
i go through the same thing! she is nice yet i know she is totally against us having a big weddding- and trust me we are reminded all the time. she is not at all excited or asks any questions or shows any warmth. she is very frugal with her money so when we talk about whatever, her disgust is written all over her face. me, i jsut roll with the punches. i dont disrepect her. even if i totally disagree with her, i yes her. its not worth it. we are different people, why waste breathe. thats my advice. yes her to death..
