I dont think i like my dress anymore

Original post by aidamarie

May 31, 2005 01:12 AM

My wedding is less than 6 weeks and im having 2nd thoughts about my dress and this is the second time this happend, After i ordered my first dress i changed my mind and fell in love with this one and now i dont think i like it anymore. I dont think its that i dont like the dress, i think its more that i dont like the way i look in it. I kinda feel like i should have gotten a dress to cover my arms since they are pretty fat on top and maybe i should of gotten a dress that hides my huge hips. I think its to late to change my mind now. And i really cant afford another one. Please be honest, in what you think about the dress and if i look to fat in it. Maybe im just stressing too much. I dont know.

PLEASE BE HONEST!!

lvdolphins Posted: May 31, 2005 09:03 AM

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I just wanted to say that you look great in your dress. Its beautiful!

boobobunny Posted: May 31, 2005 09:05 AM

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You look like a princess!!!
The dress was made for you

akajt98 Posted: May 31, 2005 09:13 AM

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You look beautiful, so do not stress! We all have those days where we second guess everything. Do not second guess the dress because you look simply lovely in it!

romameansamor Posted: May 31, 2005 09:15 AM

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As a girl w/ fat arm issues too (and I got a strapless dress ) I am going to be very honest with you...

Your arms do not look fat at all. I absolutely am sure that if you got a sleeved dress for your JULY wedding - you would look silly and it would draw MORE attention to your arms. THat dress looks gorgeous on you and you look GREAT - not heavy AT ALL! And I am being very honest b/c that is how I would want people to be to me.

Do not panic - love the dress b/c it looks like it loves you!

LilyOfValley Posted: May 31, 2005 09:28 AM

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You look great and your arms are sooooo not fat! I really think you look beautiful and it's a beautiful dress. I think you are just getting nervous and want everything perfect, like every bride!

johnsae Posted: May 31, 2005 09:57 AM

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KEEP the dress!! You look gorgeous! Seriously :)

06NovBride Posted: May 31, 2005 09:58 AM

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I think you look beautiful in the dress. I think it looks like it was made for you.

hbradio Posted: May 31, 2005 10:03 AM

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ITS GORGEOUS!!!!!!!!

I went through the same thing believe me! There is a reason you chose it in the first place!

lanabean Posted: May 31, 2005 10:26 AM

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OMG, it's so pretty! And from one tulle bride to another...I think it's great! You look very pretty.

SUNSHINE24 Posted: May 31, 2005 10:26 AM

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I did the same thing last week. 5 weeks before my wedding i thought i hated my dress and i went shopping again. But then i got a grip. i love my dress :) im sure you will come out of it and love your dress on your big day.

103005FallBride Posted: May 31, 2005 10:36 AM

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The dress is beautiful on you! Don't worry...I kind of feel the same way about my dress now too. I think it's pretty common. When I last saw my dress there was another bride and she looked amazing in her gown...well...she was doubting it too.

hmpena Posted: May 31, 2005 10:36 AM

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You look stunning! The dress is perfect and you are such a beautiful bride.

salsbride06 Posted: May 31, 2005 11:39 AM

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I THINK THAT THE DRESS REALLY COMPLIMENTS YOU. ITS BEAUTIFUL...

tjs Posted: May 31, 2005 12:28 PM

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YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL..I LOVE IT ! IM JUST GLAD IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS LIKE THIS I HAVE SOOOOOO BEEN SECOND GUESSING MY CHOICE ALSO!! BUT ITS PAID FOR WHAT CAN YOU DO!!!

OctRo05 Posted: May 31, 2005 01:01 PM

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AidaMarie...I agree with the ladies. It's your nerves. Remember, you will be dolled up on the day and feeling HAPPY. You look sooo pretty in the dress. You are focusing out of stress. The dress is great. The wedding is a month away. Try the arm lifts as mentioned in the prior entries - which is not needed, but may be a confidence booster.

sunshine&jules Posted: May 31, 2005 04:48 PM

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Mine is almost the same. I'm a tulle bride too. Thats the style now. Tulle is very dreamy. Classic. I absolutely love it.

DayBeforeThanksgiving Posted: May 31, 2005 04:52 PM

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So funny how we all second guess pretty much everything!!! (I thought I was the only one) I think we want everything to be PERFECT when the truth is that nothing is ever perfect... but I'll die trying!!!

thefourth Posted: May 31, 2005 04:55 PM

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You look beautiful! We all second guess ourselves, but you just have to trust your intial instict!

cjik Posted: May 31, 2005 04:58 PM

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You look absolutely beautiful! There is nothing to worry about. I did the same thing before my first fitting, but I feel better about the dress now.

Seriously, you look lovely. Enjoy the dress!