... I dont wanna do this anymore...

This sucks so much!!!
I am crying!!!

I am SO stupid! I should have gotten a RH... I shouldnt have spend so much money on this wedding...
People will no show up!!!! We have not got ANY response at all this week!!!!
Out of 100 ppl only 31 have rsvp YES....
I wish ppl will send it NOW telling me YES i am coming or NO EFFN coming!!!!!!

We have gotten some ppl saying 'I dunno if we can make it'....

OMG!!!!!!!! I AM FREAKING OUT!!!!

I should have JUST Gotten marry in a church n do a Dinner....



NOW for my Bridal Shower... Which is NExT sunday...
My Mom just told me
'Verito I need u to relax...Dont worry if People come or dont come. You will have ur family in ur Shower and ur closest friends and it will be amazing'
WHAT??!??!?!?!!?!?!? That send a RED FLAG autimatically to my brain telling me Ppl will nto comeeeeeee

I decided to look at the registry n that confimr me what my mother said to me... Only 15 gfts purchased


I HATE THIS PROCESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I HATE IT

I DONT WANT IT ANYMORE

I SHOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD MY FIANCEE I WANTED A RH!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!!

No people for Bridal Shower & No people for Wedding

I'm sorry you are going through this V but try to relax. The people who love you and mean the most to you will be there for your shower and your wedding and that's all you need! Forget the rest of them! Your wedding is going to be beautiful whether 10 people or 100 people come - you're marrying your best friend and that's all that matters!

V V V!!!! I hate hearing you like this especially since you're always so helpful and such a sweet sweet girl. Listen, your wedding is going to be spectacular. I know it. Just have fun with the people that do make it because they made the effort to go to your wedding! You'e going to be happy because you will be married and a stunning bride!!! EFFF everything else! lol (sorry fo my French! lol)

Also, in regards to the shower, I know how stressful this whole process is trust me. I might not even have one! lol and I totally get the RSVP stress. I plan on purchasing strong liquor on my RSVP date lol and i dont even drink!!!! lol

listen, get your mind off of things. Don't registry stalk anymore cuz you'll drive yourself nuts! just think about how beautiful you're going to look and the look FH will have when you'e walking down the aisle!!!!! love yah chica!!! ahora, RESPIRA!

do not worry about this vero. the people who love you and who are happy for you will be there. That is ALL that matters.....

is it your friends that are not stepping up or family?

V -

You have to remember - most people are procrastinators when it comes to weddings & showers. I heard stories of people having to stalk people out to get the response card back and 9 times out of 10 it's YES response. People don't get it! How nerve-wracking it is for us.

Plus - How many times have you gone to a shower and shopped the day before??? I am guilty of it - i do it all the time. I always buy last minute for showers parties, etc. most people do this. cause they suck! LOL

the last thing you should do it make yourself upset to the point of tears.

Just remember the people that matter the most will be there.

Pull it together girl and enjoy this - this should be the happiest time of your life. you are about to marry the man of your dreams!!!!!!! You are such a sweet girl don't let this get to you!

here is a few hugs comin' your way!

V, try to relax..
You're wedding is going to be amazing..like the girls here have said, people who love you will be there with you.
You still have another month to receive RSVP's. I'm sure you will get more soon.

V, you're going to make a beautiful bride and you're going to marry the person who you love and makes you so happy.

When is your rsvp date? Ppl forget to respond if you give them too much time sometimes..Lol. Don't freak, sometimes the more intimate the better , more time for you and FH to enjoy your day , less ppl to pull you in different directions etc...
Truthfully from what i'm told that day you dont even care and you don't even remember all the nonsense you went through before. I know how frustrating things can get and how sometimes yo just want the day to come already, try not to lose sight of the big picture

V! Stop crying and put your big girl thongs on! LOL Your going to have an AMAZING DAY WITH OR WITHOUT CERTAIN PEOPLE THERE. What matters most is the people who do show up and it's as good or bad as you make your day to be. AND I AM SURE THERE ARE A MILLION GIRLS ON HER THAT WOULD LOVE TO COME AND HELP YOU MAKE YOUR MIN! Just be happy and remembr YOUR GOING TO MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND!

V - think of it this way. Whether you had 5 people or 100 people, would you still marry Luis? Would he still be the person you'd say your vows to? If the answer is yes, don't let anything else get through to you. I had like 50 people at our wedding and it was amazing. We were under our minimum by about 10 people, but it didn't matter. It was the happiest days of our lives. And we knew that the people that ended up being there were the ones that truly were happy for us and made the effort to be there, and wanted to celebrate with us. Everything will be beautiful, and once it's all over, all the stress goes away and it all feels like a dream that never happened. Take it one step at a time, and don't let all these steps to get there come in your way of happiness.

You're going to have an amazing day, you will be marrying the love of your life, and everything will be beautiful.

Plus, you know if you're under, you have tons of ladies on here that would be there to celebrate with you!

I know it's hard not to stress and think about this but people are just horrible w/ RSVP'ing and don't realize how stressful it is to the B&G. I forget when your RSVP is but when it gets closer, you wll get them back. and if not, call them...lol, that's what we did. and you will have an amazing wedding whether it be 30 or 100 people! don't cry

Thank u chicas...

Just too hard...

I have too much stress of everything...

=(

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Posted by adelz



V - think of it this way. Whether you had 5 people or 100 people, would you still marry Luis? Would he still be the person you'd say your vows to? If the answer is yes, don't let anything else get through to you. I had like 50 people at our wedding and it was amazing. We were under our minimum by about 10 people, but it didn't matter. It was the happiest days of our lives. And we knew that the people that ended up being there were the ones that truly were happy for us and made the effort to be there, and wanted to celebrate with us. Everything will be beautiful, and once it's all over, all the stress goes away and it all feels like a dream that never happened. Take it one step at a time, and don't let all these steps to get there come in your way of happiness.

You're going to have an amazing day, you will be marrying the love of your life, and everything will be beautiful.

Plus, you know if you're under, you have tons of ladies on here that would be there to celebrate with you!

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ITA!!!!!

oh V! I'm sorry, people really do suck when turning these things on time but like you said - people didn't rsvp for your e party and you ended up with a good crowd! Is there anyway your parents can help track people down? I told my mom that she needs to get on her list so she harassed all of them and i got them...

when is the RSVP by date>?

V.
Everything is going to be amazing.

The one's that matter most WILL be there no matter what!

If you happen to have empty seats at your wedding, which I bet you won't-

All of us LIW girls will come and celebrate your love!!!!!!


I promise things will work out and it's not worth getting this stressed out over!!

Don't worry it will all turn out beautiful!!!!!!!!