I DOTN WANT A BACHELLORETTE PARTY ANYMOREEEEE!!!!!

InLuvWithMyBF Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:25 PM

I DOTN WANT A BACHELLORETTE PARTY ANYMOREEEEE!!!!!

Who wants to celebrate with these girls anyway. They have been nothing but unsupportive! In my review I will be giving them an F! ugh! Im so frustrated. So I really really want to do the awesome 80’s prom for my bach party and fh got us discounts on the tickets from 55 bucks to 26 bucks!! Anyway, I was so excited because I figured it wouldn’t be too much money for these girls who have complained about everything! And one say “I think its too expensive, (to my other bridesmaid who’s planning this) why don’t we got to a diner and karaoke…”

OMG!!! How dare she make plans for MY bach party?!???

Then the other one emailed me (I didn’t even know my bm was trying to plan this bach party) and said “the place you want for your party is way too expensive. Woooowwww” END QUOTE!

I can’t with these girls anymore. Usually I would understand but I can’t now because they have all disappointed me. I’m not even having a shower at this rate and they complain about EVERYTHING EVERYTHING!!

I did everything in my power to accommodate them with prices and this is unfair treatment. I have to stop being so nice!

Screw it! I don’t want an effing bach party I just want to get married!

Vent over ?

DreamyD Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:26 PM

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Let's all go to 80's Prom together- F those girls!

I went once- it was a blast= we got kicked out because the bride groped Dustin Diamond's package!!

wahoo!

Jmrosa1 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:40 PM

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I have 1 BM that is like that times 20!!! And she is a headache...I couldn't image all of them being like that. I am so sorry they are making this happy time stressful!

Jenn7982 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:45 PM

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What is an awesome 80's party??? It sounds like sooo much fun!!!! Im sure liw girls could help u have a great time!!!!

IrishAli Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:49 PM

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I'll go with you!

DANAnPATRICK Posted: Aug 26, 2011 12:58 PM

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I'll go too

IrishAli Posted: Aug 26, 2011 01:00 PM

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Can you please pick the weekend that my in laws will be crashing with us?

Moonmist09 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 01:03 PM

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ugh!!!!!! i'm so sorry! you have to go through this and they are all giving you such a hard time.

we did this for my sisters bparty and she had a blast (although i have to say the rest of us hated it) but we still paid regular price for tickets, so if you could get them for much cheaper they should all just suck it up and go!

InLuvWithMyBF Posted: Aug 26, 2011 01:04 PM

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Posted by IrishAli

Can you please pick the weekend that my in laws will be crashing with us?

InLuvWithMyBF Posted: Aug 26, 2011 01:05 PM

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thanks guys. you're all so cute!! its funny how all my bridesmaids suck big monkey nipples and you guys who dont know me all too well are as classy as they come :)

CroatianBride Posted: Aug 26, 2011 02:46 PM

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OMG I hear you on that!!!!

We were actually supposed to go to the Awesome 80's Prom tomorrow night! So everyone bought tickets, but when I asked one of my MOH's how are we getting there, her answer was 'Oh, we're taking the train'....ok, all of us? 'No, just me and you, the other girls are all adults, they'll find a way there.' I was sooooo annoyed, like really?? wt f kind of a bachelorette party is that? oh, and he comment about grabbing pizza on the way as a dinner suggestion just put me over the top. So I unleashed my inner bridezilla and started planning the whole thing on my own (dinner and transportation wise)....turned out all the frustration was for nothing because Irene scre wed up the entire weekend

InLuvWithMyBF Posted: Aug 26, 2011 02:49 PM

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Posted by CroatianBride

OMG I hear you on that!!!!

We were actually supposed to go to the Awesome 80's Prom tomorrow night! So everyone bought tickets, but when I asked one of my MOH's how are we getting there, her answer was 'Oh, we're taking the train'....ok, all of us? 'No, just me and you, the other girls are all adults, they'll find a way there.' I was sooooo annoyed, like really?? wt f kind of a bachelorette party is that? oh, and he comment about grabbing pizza on the way as a dinner suggestion just put me over the top. So I unleashed my inner bridezilla and started planning the whole thing on my own (dinner and transportation wise)....turned out all the frustration was for nothing because Irene scre wed up the entire weekend

oh no!!

jettahot Posted: Aug 26, 2011 03:15 PM

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My bach party was a disaster....
Dont sweat it, focus on you and you and FH's day!

merelynn10 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 03:56 PM

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so sorry that your BMs are being like that!!!

MrsWoods Posted: Aug 26, 2011 05:28 PM

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Wow sorry to hear that. this is why i made only one friend a MOH and the other bridemaids are the FH's teenage nieces.

What i would suggest is what i did. I planned out my own shower, bach party etc.

I told the people who are invited to the bachelorette party, how much its going to cost, what time it is and where. If they wanna go its up to them..and if they don't than i could care less.

And if it ends up that nobody wants to go, f@#k them and go out with you FH instead. You don't need a group of people to still have fun

Ang9483 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 08:42 PM

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Its hard accomodating everyone. I have been trying to be budget conscious for them as well. We did decide on Atlantic city though and all but one are attending and she wont come bc she is underage.

evita2781 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 09:09 PM

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ugh that's so annoying. sorry that you're going through this. i find that some ppl find it to be 'expensive' when it's not something for them but they somehow find ways to pay for things when it benefits themselves

adelz Posted: Aug 26, 2011 09:10 PM

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UGHHHHHH!!!! I'm so sorry!

lilgem250 Posted: Aug 26, 2011 09:18 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear this. I know how frustrating that can be. I'm sorry you are going through this.

GlitterBox24 Posted: Aug 27, 2011 10:05 AM

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I planned my own shower and bach, and it was the best thing i could of done. I had 17 girls come down to Miami with me,

What i did was planned it allll myself, i ask for no opnion whatsoever. I emailed the group, i said this is what im doing, the dates, location and prices. let me know if you inn. I think they ended up appreaciating that there was no back and forth and no changing. but i had 17 girls come down and noooooo drama. it was a quick trip, friday to sun. the price was 400$.