I dumped my MOH....

Just wanted to let you know that sometimes you truly find out who are your friends in time of need. Well I dumped my MOH and it felt great to tell her off. She never knew that she said so many things that were out of place and her actions were worst. Not only did I cut a so called friend of 15 yrs but she's not even invited to the wedding and we are no longer speaking to one another. the thing that got me as i was telling her how i felt..for once she was quiet and speechless..but she didn't shed a tear. 15 yrs of being friends...I guess I really didn't mean that much to her.

well all in all i look at it as I just cut my guest list down, saved money on flowers, gifts, oh and looking back on pictures of no regrets of having her in my bridal party.

So ladies don't feel bad about doing it if you have or thinking about it. IT was a huge relief and I would do it again in a heart beat!!!

It sounds like you've had a rough time of it with her, and that you made the right decision.

Well, you sound like you are in good spirits with the entire situation! Yes, it's funny how weddings bring the worst out in people and show you who your TRUE friends are Sorry you had to deal with this and loose a friendship of 15 years, BUT from the sounds of it........the friendship wasn't what you thought it was ..........

It sounds like you did the right thing! Sorry she gave you drama to begin with!

I did the same thing. I was friends with this girl for 30 years! I think that people think that just bc you are such good friends and know each other a long time that you kind of don't count anymore. They start to take advantage. It wasn't just that one person either- it was 5 people. You def know who your friends are when the big stuff happens.

More than likely you did the right thing. Since I stoped hanging with them I have cultivated other friendships that I had and I couldn't be happier.

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Posted by billandme

Well, you sound like you are in good spirits with the entire situation! Yes, it's funny how weddings bring the worst out in people and show you who your TRUE friends are Sorry you had to deal with this and loose a friendship of 15 years, BUT from the sounds of it........the friendship wasn't what you thought it was ..........

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Let me tell you..she lives in florida was up for the holidays and didn't make any time to spend with you. My mom broke both her feet the day after christmas...she didnt even come by to see her. All she wanted to do was hang out and go to bars and meet men.

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Posted by JIFFY

I did the same thing. I was friends with this girl for 30 years! I think that people think that just bc you are such good friends and know each other a long time that you kind of don't count anymore. They start to take advantage. It wasn't just that one person either- it was 5 people. You def know who your friends are when the big stuff happens.

More than likely you did the right thing. Since I stoped hanging with them I have cultivated other friendships that I had and I couldn't be happier.

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I agree

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Posted by Soon2bMrsI

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Posted by billandme

Well, you sound like you are in good spirits with the entire situation! Yes, it's funny how weddings bring the worst out in people and show you who your TRUE friends are Sorry you had to deal with this and loose a friendship of 15 years, BUT from the sounds of it........the friendship wasn't what you thought it was ..........

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Let me tell you..she lives in florida was up for the holidays and didn't make any time to spend with you. My mom broke both her feet the day after christmas...she didnt even come by to see her. All she wanted to do was hang out and go to bars and meet men.

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WOW!!! Well, there you go......she sounds like she is VERY self absorbed. That's not what you need from a friend...........her loss completely!

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by Soon2bMrsI

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Posted by billandme

Well, you sound like you are in good spirits with the entire situation! Yes, it's funny how weddings bring the worst out in people and show you who your TRUE friends are Sorry you had to deal with this and loose a friendship of 15 years, BUT from the sounds of it........the friendship wasn't what you thought it was ..........

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Let me tell you..she lives in florida was up for the holidays and didn't make any time to spend with you. My mom broke both her feet the day after christmas...she didnt even come by to see her. All she wanted to do was hang out and go to bars and meet men.

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WOW!!! Well, there you go......she sounds like she is VERY self absorbed. That's not what you need from a friend...........her loss completely!

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:Funny thing is that she fessed up to being self absorbed, selfish and full of her self and those where her words oh and shallow
lol:

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Posted by diva7531

Glad you feel good about the situation. I hope your mom is doing better!

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Yes she is thank you for asking. She will be back to work next week and I can;t wait because she's been depressed and driving me crazy

I feel bad that you had to go through all of this drama, but I really think that you made the right decision.

you def learn who your true friends are when you are going through a hard time in life and weddings! Ya know maybe she was just shocked that you told her off..,maybe thats the reason for no tears or emotions! In a day or so when it kicks her in the arse she will call you im sure! I know if that ever happened w. me and my BF id be heart broken!
Hope it all works out and if she doesnt relaize you are right 15 yrs of friendship meant crapola too her and shes def not worth it!!!!
good luck