My mom just told me she is afraid to talk to me because I always snap at her, especially about wedding stuff. I don't do this intentionally. I know I do get annoyed sometimes because I feel like she is nagging about stuff. I can;t think of any particular examples right now. But I feel like $hit for making her feel bad.
july06bride
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At least your mom was able to tell you, so now you will be more aware of you speak to her...you feel like she is nagging, and some of it may be...but try to listen and let it go... (WOW, I should follow my own advice)
Riss44
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Guess we are all in the same boat. Just today my mom said some thing to me too....that I don't listen to her and I get so upset and snap at her. I'm not intentionally doing it, as I'm sure you are not. I definitely think it's in part to stress....this whole wedding planning and getting every thing together is a heck of a lot more stressful than I ever thought it would be. I would say just listen to what Mom has to say and don't let any thing get to you....I must take my own advice!!
Marissa 5-27-06
Robin404
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I'm joining the snapping club! I do it too, we have a lot going on, I'm also buying a house at the same time, money and planning is out of control. I live with my dad and snap all the time. He was talking to my FH about it and my FH told him I don't mean it, I just have a lot on my mind...sorry dad!
VogueBride
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i do the same thing....i think deep down my mom understands..but i feel badly about it.....and i hardly know im doing it helf the time.....
buggiegirl
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I just posted about this the other day too- looks like we are all snappers
I guess we all just need to chill out!! I think it is hard for peopple to understand how much stress planning a wedding is!!