When he got in tonight, he had use the little boys room, then the phone rang. It was his brother, I told him to hang on. When fh got on the phone he said he's not in a good mood...stressful day and had train trouble. His brother said fine and bye. After fh was done eating he called his brother back. They were going at it on the phone. FH brother told fh that he thinks he's highty and mighty. He just caught him when he got in the door. He feels his brother doesn't treat him as a brother. He feels his brother treats a neighbor more like a brother. They both hung up on each other. So fh calls his mother just to let her know whats going on. He says when we mail out the invites in about 2 weeks, if he doesn't get an apology, he won't mail his brother an invite. I don't want this to tear about his family.
Sorry so long
They spoke. They both said they were wrong. For now everything is ok
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Happybride2005
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he(his brother) made a comment a few weeks ago that ticked me off...fh doesn't know i'm ticked off. he told his brother the day of the shower. the brother said why that day since he's going to boston that day to see a ballgame. this guy goes to a whole lot of games. i didn't know fh had to check with him to see if the date for my shower is good. i just hope they could resolve. he has such a small small family
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I'm sure it will all blow over. Your FH just had a rough day and was under enough stress without having to deal with his brother. Im sure they will both come around, just give it time!!! In the mean time, here's some
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tensions are running high on my end too!
I HATE ALL THIS F'ING STRESS!!!!!!!!!!
we should have eloped!
Happybride2005
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tensions are running high on my end too!
I HATE ALL THIS F'ING STRESS!!!!!!!!!!
we should have eloped!
the stress has nothing to do with the wedding.. he was just busy at work. i hope it blows over
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tensions are running high on my end too!
I HATE ALL THIS F'ING STRESS!!!!!!!!!!
we should have eloped!
the stress has nothing to do with the wedding.. he was just busy at work. i hope it blows over
I am finding that things that used to roll off my back are pissing me off. Personally, I'm blaming the wedding stress for how I've been acting lately. I have such a short fuse these days. I am SO stressed and busy at work and feel like I can't focus 100% b/c of the wedding.
anyhow, I hope they work it out.
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Gail-Any new info?
For your FH- your hugs helped mine when his closest friend from childhood said he wasn't coming to the wedding!
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I hope everything works out. Hopefully in a day or two his brother will realize that he was being a jerk and it will all blow over
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for you and fh
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Gail-Any new info?
For your FH- your hugs helped mine when his closest friend from childhood said he wasn't coming to the wedding!
no new info chris. we'll see what happens when we get home from work. his brother is the type of person that he thinks he's never wrong. there r times he's nice to fh then other times a complete arse
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fh left a message on his brother's answering machine today. he said to discuss things. he doesn't know who to blame as we all get in moods. now the ball is in his brother's court
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fh left a message on his brother's answering machine today. he said to discuss things. he doesn't know who to blame as we all get in moods. now the ball is in his brother's court
Your FH did the right thing. He's showing your FBIL that he's the bigger man. Hopefully, your FBIL will man up and call him back.