i feel like crying

soontobecruz Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:06 AM

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As you said if she wants to take her children out that is sad, but to attack you and 'wish you luck' in that way is just wrong... I would let FH deal with it though this is his family and I would hate for you to come off badly.

little j Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:09 AM

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just kill her with kindness. tell her thank you, but you already have FG and are very excited to have them part of the day! tell her you would love to have her child as part of your special day too, but you understand if she would rather her not be a jrBM

the end

dont go into detail. dont start a verbal back-and-forth

gl! hth!

Tessie728 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:12 AM

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People can be so rediculous with these things!! I dont know why she is making you feel so bad about 'dealing' with the family. Weddings can bring out so much family drama!!

I would just make her a flower girl too to avoid drama... and also to make sure the 3yo gets down the aisle!

gonzalezm3 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:15 AM

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have both girls be FGs. There is nothing wrong with that

dfw343 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:47 AM

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My advice..leave it alone.
Say ok and move on.
This crap will catch up as the divorce gets messier and you don't want to be involved or misquoted in any way (be happy it's email as proof)...for her to say 'good luck with family' she s a woman scorned..and you know what they say...

I feel bad for the kid though...

anf you but two FG thing is fine...trust me!