I just wrote this really long post and of course i lost it. UGH.
Anyhow long story short my sis (moh) caused a scene at her dress fitting tonight calling a girl that worked at the place a 'f*cking b*tch'....
very long story. Basically offered my sis her second dress fitting on sept 24th.. 2 days before the wedding.. and my moms dress hasnt come in althought it was shipped out a month ago. (She was told that it was shipped 3 different times and it never really was). So she was lied to. Her first fitting is now on the 17th and my mom was concerned that she might need multiple fittings and the girl got an attitude instead of simply saying they would make it happen.
I feel really bad tho bc noone deserves to be called that at their job in front of other employees and customers...
I just feel anxious, guilty, bad, mad..all at once.
ETA: I am mortified bc it turned into a big ordeal and I just dont need the added stress..
MrsDrinkh20
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You're right you don't need added stress.. You're right the girl didn't deserve that... You're right the girl shouldn't have given attitude...
Seems like a lot of thigns that just shouldnt have happened and I am sorry that they did...Just take a step back, realize these aren't YOUR issues and don't worry about them...breathe and move on...everything will work out...i promise!
You have FM!
eta: as for your mom's fittings don't worry...they will make it happen...it's there job!
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You're right you don't need added stress.. You're right the girl didn't deserve that... You're right the girl shouldn't have given attitude...
Seems like a lot of thigns that just shouldnt have happened and I am sorry that they did...Just take a step back, realize these aren't YOUR issues and don't worry about them...breathe and move on...everything will work out...i promise!
You have FM!
eta: as for your mom's fittings don't worry...they will make it happen...it's there job!
Thanks hun. i sent FM back. I just feel bad for my mom cause I think she is going to have to take time off of work to do it and her boss is not very nice about it lol.
But anyhow just nonesense I didnt want to deal with and I def. dont want to be black listed at the store, I really like them there
MrsDrinkh20
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awww you wont be black listed! You have FM back
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Aww that stinks! Why the lies? I don't blame your sister for getting angry...I think my sisters would have done the same thing!
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Aww that stinks! Why the lies? I don't blame your sister for getting angry...I think my sisters would have done the same thing!
Im not sure what happened with the dress thing and I honestly dont care at this point. I just want to get it in asap. I dont know what happened with it.
I dont blame my sis for getting mad at all but there are def. better ways to handle it. The girl was just doing her job the best that she could. Maybe could have been a little nicer but still no need to go all crazy on her like my sis did.
I know i will laugh about this tomorrow but right now I guess I just feel like it was a hectic day with a hectic ending
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Aww that stinks! Why the lies? I don't blame your sister for getting angry...I think my sisters would have done the same thing!
Im not sure what happened with the dress thing and I honestly dont care at this point. I just want to get it in asap. I dont know what happened with it.
I dont blame my sis for getting mad at all but there are def. better ways to handle it. The girl was just doing her job the best that she could. Maybe could have been a little nicer but still no need to go all crazy on her like my sis did.
I know i will laugh about this tomorrow but right now I guess I just feel like it was a hectic day with a hectic ending
You just need a good hug!
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Also just wanted to add that the girl was a little rude but at the same time my mom and sis werent too nice either. I think they were coming off rude too. It was all a blur bc I was too busy playin with my blackberry to really pay attention to what went on.
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Don't stress hun. You know what...people in the SERVICE business need to realize that it's THEIR JOB to service their customers! Especially, in the wedding business when you're dealing with all sorts of emotions... There is no need for that. What happened to the customer is always right? Customer service is a thing of the past and it shouldn't be. Actually, how the customer service is with a vendor or store dictates as to whether or not I will do busines with them. So I say, GO SIS! hehe. Sorry if I didn't help!!! Good luck ~~ everything always works out!