lately i always have negative posts...1st i was complaining about being depressed, then my hall changing and being upset about it, now my broken arm...
and i found out yesterday im not able to work for 2 months. i dont get disability from work so i dont know what will happen yet. if i have no income that means no $ for bills or wedding savings. then when i go back 2 work ill have 2 catch up w bills so still wont have wedding $. i dont know how we're going 2 have enough $ for the wedding.
im sorry, i feel like all i do on here is complain...but im home and have no 1 2 talk 2 and im upset.
i dont know what we r going 2 do.
SB7308
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Was everything straightened out with the RH??
Dont worry, it will all work out!! Do you have an option of borrowing from family if it comes down to it, but then paying them back?
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It will all work out in the end. I'm sure life has thrown you curve balls before. You will get through this and you will be that much stronger. I am so sorry you feel crappy.
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listen IM DEBBIE THE DOWNER SO HUSH!
why cant u get disability?!@
xXxNovember08xXx
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u are allowed to vent.. thats why we are here.
RadiantBride
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I am going to send you FM
mariaobride
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sorry it hasnt been such a good month for you things will work themselves out in time.. we are all here for ya
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awwwwwwwwwwwww dont feel like the debbie downer. Im sorry you are going thru all of this all at once. Get that disability done asap., they take a WHILE
ant n tilde
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im sorry babe feel free to vent i wish i could help!
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Was everything straightened out with the RH??
Dont worry, it will all work out!! Do you have an option of borrowing from family if it comes down to it, but then paying them back?
i went 2 the rh and saw pics...it looks like it is gonna be beautiful!!! i'm still upset about the bowling but ill get over it. the thing that really p isses me off is that they didnt tell us about it.
TY for asking!! i dont know about borrowing $...my fam doesnt have it 2 lend and i dont know if his would lend it.
but i guess we could take out a loan if we had to...
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Im sorry you feel this way. It seems alot of us on here are feeling down lately. Pl cheer up I hate to see people down
JeanetteandSteve
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why cant u get disability?!@
they said i havent been paying into it...i had no idea i even had to pay in 2 get it...i dont really understand.
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Cheer up! Everything will work out!
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why cant u get disability?!@
they said i havent been paying into it...i had no idea i even had to pay in 2 get it...i dont really understand.
waht!?@ it shoudl automatically be taken off, i didnt think it was an OPTION grab a paystub!?
ant n tilde
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do you work for a small company?
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Posted by JeanetteandSteve
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why cant u get disability?!@
they said i havent been paying into it...i had no idea i even had to pay in 2 get it...i dont really understand.
waht!?@ it shoudl automatically be taken off, i didnt think it was an OPTION grab a paystub!?
my company is based out of MA so i dont know if the law is different there??
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Was everything straightened out with the RH??
Dont worry, it will all work out!! Do you have an option of borrowing from family if it comes down to it, but then paying them back?
i went 2 the rh and saw pics...it looks like it is gonna be beautiful!!! i'm still upset about the bowling but ill get over it. the thing that really p isses me off is that they didnt tell us about it.
TY for asking!! i dont know about borrowing $...my fam doesnt have it 2 lend and i dont know if his would lend it.
but i guess we could take out a loan if we had to...
Glad you liked the pics. It isn't right that they didn't tell you! I'm sure everything will be ok
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do you work for a small company?
yes. y, does that make a diff 4 how disability works?
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Posted by JeanetteandSteve
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why cant u get disability?!@
they said i havent been paying into it...i had no idea i even had to pay in 2 get it...i dont really understand.
waht!?@ it shoudl automatically be taken off, i didnt think it was an OPTION grab a paystub!?
my company is based out of MA so i dont know if the law is different there??
laws... i woud still look.. and if not.. you will still get through it .. now it seems so overwhelming, but it will work out.. thats how we do it.. we adjust to everythign that comes our way....
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You probably did not pay for the additional disability that covers in excess of what the state disability amount is. You are still entitled to receive state disability which I believe in NY is approx 150 per week
