i feel odd telling a 3rd 'party'they cant come.. HELP

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:30 PM

i feel odd telling a 3rd 'party'they cant come.. HELP

FH best friend his Brother is engaged AND has a girlfriend

we sent the announcement to the brother and his FIANCE only...

She JUST im'ed me
'now my question is the announcement was for Scott and kat am I able to attend the wedding also just wondering'

I responded in SHOCK
'the wedding is more then a year and a half away I haven't even planned who inviting let alone the details'

w t f do i say?! bc she is NOT invited.. but i feel REAL weird telling her.. HELP!!!!!!

ps : she is ALSO not invited to FH best friends wedding....

i hope i didnt confuse anyone.

HELP

Teamhurldon Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:34 PM

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confused.... wait he is engaged AND has a girlfriend or are we talking about 2 different guys lol

ant n tilde Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:34 PM

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wait. everyone knows about each other?

BellaChandella Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:34 PM

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uh what? a girlfriend? and getting married? what? lol

Jumbles Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:34 PM

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something similar happened to me i was out and a acquaintance asked me the same thing ...'will i get a invite ?' and i just told her listen i will try to do my best but we have alot of family and friends and we have a max ..she understood i would just be honest

Julybride08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:35 PM

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so wait he has a fiance and giirlfriend???

BubbasBride Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:35 PM

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engaged and a girlfriend makes me go

Crystan08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:35 PM

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LoL i'm a little confused too!! I think I need that info again!!

ant n tilde Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:36 PM

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wow i hope FH doesnt find out about THAT arrangement he may want to give it a shot!!

Julybride08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:37 PM

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Posted by ant n tilde

wow i hope FH doesnt find out about THAT arrangement he may want to give it a shot!!

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:37 PM

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okay, let me know if I have this straight: your FH's brother has a fiancee AND a girlfriend? so you only invited him and his fiancee and then his girlfriend im's you saying she wants to come too? and she's not even invited to her boyfriends wedding?? Did I get this right?

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:37 PM

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YES it is ALLL Confusing as you all are....

his name lets call him S
S has been engaged to K for 4 years now
S and K went on to a dating website met E, and E moved into THEIR HOUSE

S K AND E have been LIVING together for 2/ 2.5 years now

S brother is M
M is FH best friend.
M is not having E at his wedding
I am NOT having E at mine..

we sent out announcements to S and K ONLY

im so confused... what is wrong with ppl... and why are they making me stressed with their confusing relationships...

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:38 PM

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Posted by GinaBambina88

okay, let me know if I have this straight: your FH's brother has a fiancee AND a girlfriend? so you only invited him and his fiancee and then his girlfriend im's you saying she wants to come too? and she's not even invited to her boyfriends wedding?? Did I get this right?

similar.. i hope my update make it more clear... the ENTIRE situation is clear out of left field.

Crystan08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:39 PM

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Interesting situtation

BellaChandella Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:40 PM

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yea real interesting. lol

BubbasBride Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:40 PM

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So they are a swinging couple with a live in girlfriend??

am i getting this right?

and if i am, i don't have any idea as to what's appropriate in terms of invites

KickinDandelions Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:41 PM

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Posted by debbieh

YES it is ALLL Confusing as you all are....

his name lets call him S
S has been engaged to K for 4 years now
S and K went on to a dating website met E, and E moved into THEIR HOUSE

S K AND E have been LIVING together for 2/ 2.5 years now

S brother is M
M is FH best friend.
M is not having E at his wedding
I am NOT having E at mine..

we sent out announcements to S and K ONLY

im so confused... what is wrong with ppl... and why are they making me stressed with their confusing relationships...

wow...that's ..interesting.. i don't know what to tell you..except good luck..i wish i could help

GinaBambina08 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:42 PM

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whoa....I don't know how women are able to share their men like that... I DEFINITELY wouldn't be able to do that..

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:42 PM

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and its like we cant just totally advoid the ENTIRE family bc FH he is inviting his best friend(hes in the bridal party), the parents and the engaged brother who has the girlfriend...

i jsut signed off line.. she is still like hello hello hello???

mind you she JUST turned 21 and they are almsot 30

AMGBride2008 Posted: Mar 23, 2007 02:42 PM

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How SCANDALOUS!!! They're swingers?!!?!?

OK, this is what I would tell her, you haven't planned the guest list yet, but you're trying to keep it very small, family only.. that's all.