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I feel so guilty

TheFutureMrsM Posted:

I feel so guilty

Tonite me and FH went after work to grand luxe, had a nice dinner, and then he went to the mall to buy me my presents. He does this once a year. I just hung around at the mall, and chit chatted with my friends on the phone.

I gave him a crazy list, of stuff i didnt think he would ever buy. He told me he went to sooo many stores looking for everything He comes out of the mall at 11pm with all my gifts professionally wrapped. every year he goes to the same ladies at macys who do gift wrapping. They look so pretty.

He spent over $1000 dollars tonight!!!

I feel so guilty i dont deserve all this stuff
Collweenie21 Posted:

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I don't deserve sh*t neither, but smile and say 'Thank you!!!'
Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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wow u are one lucky lady!!!! we set a limit everyyear since we dont have that kinda money!!..lol.. maybe one day but yaay cant wait to see what u got!!
Collweenie21 Posted:

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We set a 200 limit this year... with saving and stuff. But we usually spend 1 g.. Hey Nicole, if you're feeling giving... remember who loves ya girl!!!
megzzie Posted:

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that's so nice! can't wait to hear what you got!

TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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I really dont deserve this stuff.

I honestly made the list as a joke...and gave it to him.

I feel so bad, i told my mother and she was so mad at me for making him spend so much. She was like what do you need????

But i just made a list. I didnt force anything

I do not even know what exactly i am geting. I am going to post pics tommorow of the presents and how pretty they are decorated!!
Soon2BMrsD Posted:

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i understand my mom and dad yelled at me yesterday cuz i told FH that i put a dooney and bourke bag on lay-away at marshalls till i got my holiday bonus... it was on sale from 180 to 79.. so i couldnt pass it up.. well yesterday FH walked in and had the bag in his hand.. my parents are like YOUR So SPOILED!!!! im so far from it its insane it makes me so mad when they say that!! but it was really cute that he just went and picked it up cuz he knew how much ilove it!

Espo22 Posted:

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I spent that much on FI and i know both of our parents will have something to say, probably gonna hear ' you need to save money, you have alot of stuff coming up that you need to pay for' ... i do understand that, i put away most of my paycheck in savings, everytime i want to get myself something i dont bc i remember all the payments we have coming up soon.
karen6474 Posted:

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wow!! you're one lucky gal!!! cant wait to hear what u got!!!

PoeticJustice Posted:

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SoontobeMrsH Posted:

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aww that's great, Don't feel bad, I've got a gift eveynight thus far from FH for Channukah and he hasn't recieved thing yet from me, why.... B/c I'm a slacker that chose not ot hit the mall tonight, butr to have the girls over for cocktails

FH always spends more $ on me than I spend on him, at first I was embrassed, but we've lived the last 4 yrs as our money, not mine or his, so ... I hope you got everything you ;like the worst is having to return..

- this year so far:

-Gym membership for a year
-personal training sessions
-golf clubs
- golf outfit, & tees, & other accessories
- Bath & body Huge basket of goodies


Our 1 yr of being engaged was this past sat, & FH is having the diamond I inherited re-set to replace my orignal e-ring,

* Petey our puppy got me: a box & VS Panties (like I asked for, to replace the ones he dsestroyed)

& good chocolate

I'm like ok, when will the gifts stop , there are still 3 more nights of Channukah & Christmas What can I get to even excite him

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