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I finally broke down this morning (updates with more to come)

BKtoLI Posted:

I finally broke down this morning (updates with more to come)

and cried my head off.

It's going to take all of my strength not to cry all day today, my only saving grace is that the FILs are here to distract me.

Between my mother being sick, my florist standing me up, my dress being butchered, my MOH continuing her silence in not getting back to me at all, the knowledge that nothing has been done about a shower at all, and an argument I had with my brother and SIL (which has now blown over and we're back to normal again), I just couldn't take it anymore.

It has seriously been the week from hell, and it seemed like everytime I thought it couldn't get worse, it did. Friday was the only good time I had so far, even with the news I had to deal with that day. So for that, I thank you guys for being out with me and giving me a few hours to forget about things.

My brother is going this morning to see my MOH and my aunt. I told him and my SIL to please tell her to contact me because this is driving me nuts. It makes me feel like no one gives a damn 3 months before the wedding. My mother has even tried telling my aunt suggestions because she feels bad.

Leslie, you know we're living parallel lives, so I know you understand. I was trying to keep it together all week, but I lost it today. I don't know how I can keep it together yet especially when I have to go yell at the bridal salon later. Ladies, please wish me strength, because I am at the breaking point.
SweetCin704 Posted:

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Oh Janna
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glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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I'm so sorry you're going through such a hard time. All of the wedding stuff will work out, I promise. But it's awful when you think people don't care. Believe me, they do. How is your mom doing? Is she going for treatment soon? Depending on the type of breast cancer, the prognosis can be very good. There are some types that are slow growing and less agressive than others. My FMIL and FAIL (future aunt in law) are both breast cancer free for 3 years now, and they had 2 different types. I am keeping your mom in my thoughts.
shellnroc Posted:

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I am so sorry you are going through all of this!!!!
It will ALL work out!!!
We are ALL here for you, Sweetie!!!
BJandDan Posted:

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Awwww Janna. All I can say is
MrsStefan Posted:

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Janna, I feel terrible that you are going through this. Just take everything one day at a time. I know it might seem overwhelming, but try to lean on your FH and his family for support. You'll get through it. Here are some
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CTarantino Posted:

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Janna,

I am so sorry you have to go through all this crap. I pray for you to have the strengh and get through it all. I hope this week is better. Cry, kick, scream, whatever makes you feel better. There is such a relief when you post on these boards. Post away cause there are so many people on these boards that love you...and even dream about you
Good Luck!!
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Goldi1021 Posted:

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Janna it is so important to give yourself the opportunities to release your frustrations. Once you do that you can think more clearly as to how you are going to approach dealing with all that pi$$es you off. You cannot walk around like a ticking time bomb. Again, I am always here for you. We could start a support group!

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Posted by Goldi1021

Janna it is so important to give yourself the opportunities to release your frustrations. Once you do that you can think more clearly as to how you are going to approach dealing with all that pi$$es you off. You cannot walk around like a ticking time bomb. Again, I am always here for you. We could start a support group!



Wow, perfectly put!
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You are a strong, amazing person and I know that you can handle anything! Three months from now you will be marryong the perfect man for you and all of this stuff will be in the past.

Hang in there honey!
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