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I got a blank RSVP!

Original post by snwb08

And it was a no too, which I'm happy about but how do i know who it's from? I can't believe it - I said I should mark them but was like nah, no one is that stupid

snwb08 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


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was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.



oh trust me i know all about the guest list drama, seems its hard to escape but that is messed up if they do rsvp no after all that.

For me its that EVERYBODY complains about how many ppl are on the guestlist and OMG so much, everyone complains to me and wow too much. Here is the funny part, i invited the least amount of ppl, and i just mean me personally ya know. So i just laugh bc of how funny i find it. Everyone complains and says things to me but then everybody hands me long lists and i am the one person not complaining about the list



i wouldn't even let that happen. in my case i'm the last girl and very anti-traditional so my parents expected me to have a smaller wedding. I told my parents to tell me who they wanted; between them and FMIL they invited 4 couples. and 3 of them were fmil's. But even my dad ganged up on me about these IL's b/c my sister got upset, and i was like are you freaking kidding me? I have 3 sisters, all married, and i invited all their parents in laws. Now i have to invite siblings too?

then my other bro in law told his brother not to come b/c i didn't want to invite him in the first place!!! so of course i felt terrible about that but my bro in law is an idiot

you are having a big wedding but you're the only girl right so i'm sure they want to do it up. you're wedding will be amazing!! I wish i was more into it - I'm excited now that it's so close but i just want it over with!
Espo22 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.



oh trust me i know all about the guest list drama, seems its hard to escape but that is messed up if they do rsvp no after all that.

For me its that EVERYBODY complains about how many ppl are on the guestlist and OMG so much, everyone complains to me and wow too much. Here is the funny part, i invited the least amount of ppl, and i just mean me personally ya know. So i just laugh bc of how funny i find it. Everyone complains and says things to me but then everybody hands me long lists and i am the one person not complaining about the list



i wouldn't even let that happen. in my case i'm the last girl and very anti-traditional so my parents expected me to have a smaller wedding. I told my parents to tell me who they wanted; between them and FMIL they invited 4 couples. and 3 of them were fmil's. But even my dad ganged up on me about these IL's b/c my sister got upset, and i was like are you freaking kidding me? I have 3 sisters, all married, and i invited all their parents in laws. Now i have to invite siblings too?

then my other bro in law told his brother not to come b/c i didn't want to invite him in the first place!!! so of course i felt terrible about that but my bro in law is an idiot

you are having a big wedding but you're the only girl right so i'm sure they want to do it up. you're wedding will be amazing!! I wish i was more into it - I'm excited now that it's so close but i just want it over with!



well about 100 of the guests are fh's family lol. To me its crazy bc i dont understand why ppl say things to me...maybe they forget how many ppl they invited and think i invited most of those ppl they should know i dont like that many people so aint happening hahahaha. If i havent seen you or hung out with you in the past year or 2 you werent invited, dont care how much i used to hang out with them ya know.

omg are you kidding, im having anxiety everyday lately, i just want it to come already-i cant take it lol
snwb08 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.



oh trust me i know all about the guest list drama, seems its hard to escape but that is messed up if they do rsvp no after all that.

For me its that EVERYBODY complains about how many ppl are on the guestlist and OMG so much, everyone complains to me and wow too much. Here is the funny part, i invited the least amount of ppl, and i just mean me personally ya know. So i just laugh bc of how funny i find it. Everyone complains and says things to me but then everybody hands me long lists and i am the one person not complaining about the list



i wouldn't even let that happen. in my case i'm the last girl and very anti-traditional so my parents expected me to have a smaller wedding. I told my parents to tell me who they wanted; between them and FMIL they invited 4 couples. and 3 of them were fmil's. But even my dad ganged up on me about these IL's b/c my sister got upset, and i was like are you freaking kidding me? I have 3 sisters, all married, and i invited all their parents in laws. Now i have to invite siblings too?

then my other bro in law told his brother not to come b/c i didn't want to invite him in the first place!!! so of course i felt terrible about that but my bro in law is an idiot

you are having a big wedding but you're the only girl right so i'm sure they want to do it up. you're wedding will be amazing!! I wish i was more into it - I'm excited now that it's so close but i just want it over with!



well about 100 of the guests are fh's family lol. To me its crazy bc i dont understand why ppl say things to me...maybe they forget how many ppl they invited and think i invited most of those ppl they should know i dont like that many people so aint happening hahahaha. If i havent seen you or hung out with you in the past year or 2 you werent invited, dont care how much i used to hang out with them ya know.

omg are you kidding, im having anxiety everyday lately, i just want it to come already-i cant take it lol



omg that's too funny - everyone said that about me - well we know silvana is having a small wedding b/c she doesn't like anyone!

it's true though!
wundmoretime Posted:

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I am def marking my rsvp cards with all the stories I hear.

Espo22 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.



oh trust me i know all about the guest list drama, seems its hard to escape but that is messed up if they do rsvp no after all that.

For me its that EVERYBODY complains about how many ppl are on the guestlist and OMG so much, everyone complains to me and wow too much. Here is the funny part, i invited the least amount of ppl, and i just mean me personally ya know. So i just laugh bc of how funny i find it. Everyone complains and says things to me but then everybody hands me long lists and i am the one person not complaining about the list



i wouldn't even let that happen. in my case i'm the last girl and very anti-traditional so my parents expected me to have a smaller wedding. I told my parents to tell me who they wanted; between them and FMIL they invited 4 couples. and 3 of them were fmil's. But even my dad ganged up on me about these IL's b/c my sister got upset, and i was like are you freaking kidding me? I have 3 sisters, all married, and i invited all their parents in laws. Now i have to invite siblings too?

then my other bro in law told his brother not to come b/c i didn't want to invite him in the first place!!! so of course i felt terrible about that but my bro in law is an idiot

you are having a big wedding but you're the only girl right so i'm sure they want to do it up. you're wedding will be amazing!! I wish i was more into it - I'm excited now that it's so close but i just want it over with!



well about 100 of the guests are fh's family lol. To me its crazy bc i dont understand why ppl say things to me...maybe they forget how many ppl they invited and think i invited most of those ppl they should know i dont like that many people so aint happening hahahaha. If i havent seen you or hung out with you in the past year or 2 you werent invited, dont care how much i used to hang out with them ya know.

omg are you kidding, im having anxiety everyday lately, i just want it to come already-i cant take it lol



omg that's too funny - everyone said that about me - well we know silvana is having a small wedding b/c she doesn't like anyone!

it's true though!



yeah thank god i didnt get married years ago bc i used to be the opposite lol, then i would've also invited the world hahahaha
agraydc Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!

some people are not too bright, hey it happens!!!

Lil83108 Posted:

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I know!!! I am going to number the back corner of each one and then put a number on my guest list next to each name because there are a lot of people out there that don't write there names on the card.
del Rio Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!

AWWW!! That happened to me!!! They wrote a note and I figured it out!!

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