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I got a blank RSVP!

Original post by snwb08

And it was a no too, which I'm happy about but how do i know who it's from? I can't believe it - I said I should mark them but was like nah, no one is that stupid

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08

yeah, i'm not sure if it's worse or better that it's a No? I guess better....

there are a handful of people in garden city so i can narrow it down, but what if someone was like working and just mailed it from there and they don't live there? that won't help me then.

so annoying.



well wait to see if you get rsvp's from those who live in garden city. If you are missing 1 then it'll be them if not then youre going to have to figure out even who lives there. S*CKS but guess you have to wait a bit



my sister lives in garden city and she hasn't sent hers yet; fh was like oh maybe she's not coming. dumba$$



lol yeah i doubt its her
madseason Posted:

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Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?
Kerin2804 Posted:

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I think I am going to do the numbering on the inside of the response cards now....Sorry that happened to you.

mRm2008 Posted:

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People really are idiots sometimes. I hope you figure it out w/o wracking yourself crazy. I am def. going to try and mark mine somehow
snwb08 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


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Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!

NapaValleyGirl Posted:

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That's something someone in my family would do.... I'm so sorry! That's so annoying.
I guess you have to wait until everyone RSVPS? Process of elimination?
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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Aww that stinks! some people are so freakin retarded! (no offense if it winds up being someone close to u)

snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Kerin2804

I think I am going to do the numbering on the inside of the response cards now....Sorry that happened to you.



i would definitely do it if you can. i actually thought about it but figured we don't have a huge guest list so it's not a big deal. now i'm like

whoever the moron is, i'm glad they aren't coming because they are DUMB.
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by FinallyEngaged

Aww that stinks! some people are so freakin retarded! (no offense if it winds up being someone close to u)



No, I totally agree. if it was someone close I would just call them and tell them they are retarded (though I'm guessing maybe someone close would have said yes, but who knows).
bluekat16 Posted:

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Espo22 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

That's something someone in my family would do.... I'm so sorry! That's so annoying.
I guess you have to wait until everyone RSVPS? Process of elimination?



yeah, i so don't want to deal with trying to figure it out though! PLUS my home computer crashed sunday and i have to re-enter all the RSVPs - good thing I have a backup list and didn't throw them out, but I wasn't going to save them at first.
NapaValleyGirl Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by snwb08


Posted by NapaValleyGirl

That's something someone in my family would do.... I'm so sorry! That's so annoying.
I guess you have to wait until everyone RSVPS? Process of elimination?



yeah, i so don't want to deal with trying to figure it out though! PLUS my home computer crashed sunday and i have to re-enter all the RSVPs - good thing I have a backup list and didn't throw them out, but I wasn't going to save them at first.



I know, it must be so frustrating!!! Seriously, I'm not joking, I bet I'll get like 10 blank ones from my family cause they don't even understand the concept of RSVP's. They just show up.


So sorry!! Sending positive vibes your way that this will be the ONLY blank you get!!
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.
snwb08 Posted:

Re: I got a blank RSVP!


Posted by NapaValleyGirl


Posted by snwb08


Posted by NapaValleyGirl

That's something someone in my family would do.... I'm so sorry! That's so annoying.
I guess you have to wait until everyone RSVPS? Process of elimination?



yeah, i so don't want to deal with trying to figure it out though! PLUS my home computer crashed sunday and i have to re-enter all the RSVPs - good thing I have a backup list and didn't throw them out, but I wasn't going to save them at first.



I know, it must be so frustrating!!! Seriously, I'm not joking, I bet I'll get like 10 blank ones from my family cause they don't even understand the concept of RSVP's. They just show up.


So sorry!! Sending positive vibes your way that this will be the ONLY blank you get!!



definitely number them then. it's a really smart thing; i only heard about it from this site, we never did that for my sisters' weddings.
PP424 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Kerin2804

I think I am going to do the numbering on the inside of the response cards now....Sorry that happened to you.



i would definitely do it if you can. i actually thought about it but figured we don't have a huge guest list so it's not a big deal. now i'm like

whoever the moron is, i'm glad they aren't coming because they are DUMB.



After reading what happened to you, I'm going to put numbers on the response cards too.
I can't believe people wouldn't think to put their name.
Well I hope you find out who it is.
Belongs2DanBuckley Posted:

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AH THAT SUUUUUUUCKS!!! WHAT A RETARD! was there any return address on the envelope?

snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

AH THAT SUUUUUUUCKS!!! WHAT A RETARD! was there any return address on the envelope?



nope. just a garden city postmark.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason


Posted by snwb08


Posted by madseason

was there a return address with it??



No. It was postmarked Garden City; that's my only clue.



oh thats helpful! Can you use that at all?



i'm going to try and call my sister - it might be her sister in law. if it is i'm going to dropkick her in the head b/c she FORCED me to add her to the guest list which means i had to invite all my sisters bro/sis in laws, so if they said no I'm going to be 1. happy that they aren't coming anyway and 2. annoyed at my sister for causing drama and 3. PO'd at myself for giving in!!




people are ridiculous lol seriously. It better not be her then



seriously i was so twisted over this - it was my only real drama with the guest list, and she knew I wanted a small wedding but still gave me this whole speech about they are her family blah blah blah. fh and i even got into a fight over it and i'm still bitter about it... she helped me in so many other ways though so i just felt bad.

but after all that if they said no, then i'll be really annoyed at my sister.



oh trust me i know all about the guest list drama, seems its hard to escape but that is messed up if they do rsvp no after all that.

For me its that EVERYBODY complains about how many ppl are on the guestlist and OMG so much, everyone complains to me and wow too much. Here is the funny part, i invited the least amount of ppl, and i just mean me personally ya know. So i just laugh bc of how funny i find it. Everyone complains and says things to me but then everybody hands me long lists and i am the one person not complaining about the list
Future Mulligan Posted:

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omg this is tooo funny.....i can totally see this happening to us! mayeb we should mark the backs of the rsvp cards

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