Wow - 11 days to go and I had my first emotional breakdown today - cried a bit - got it out - and I am better now. The wedding day is totally planned, I have no worries over this - but I am so worried about finances after the wedding - I hope it will alo work out........I keep telling myself that it will.....but I won't feel better until it is over. Worried about the first credit card bill after we return home from the HM. We basically have enough saved to cover the wedding day cash pay outs (photographer, video, florist, etc), but things are tight. Anyone else have these worries?
susdoug
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Hang in there...hugs!
snydl40
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Take a deep breath and push it out of your mind. I know it nearly impossible but please don't let it rule your day. Everything is planned and mostly paid for-worry about it after the HM -not now. Enjoy the next 11 days!
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Enjoy your day.. dont worry right now .. Money is a big problem for most even me .. But, This is the most enjoyable time of your life and you live once... SO HAVE FUN!!!!
We had these worries too! I can say it's going to all work out because you planned! Enjoy your wedding day because you're marrying the love of your life!!!
luvabul
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yes, but just be happy u 2 are together thats all that matters, and that love will hopefully be enough to get you through anythingg...
AlmostMrsKelly
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trust me, i understand. i'm 2 months away and a lay awake a lot of nights worrying over this. not fun. but i guess you just have to know it'll all work out - it always does. try to just enjoy this time, enjoy your day and worry about it when you have to
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I feel your pain me and FH took out a nice size loan for this wedding and we don't start paying it back until a month after the wedding I don't know how we are going to do it either but it will work out you just have to think positive thoughts!!
jennd311
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hang in there, and enjoy every minute of your wedding day.
rojerono
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It will work out beautifully. Have faith and believe that the world finds a way. It does - I promise. Prosperity comes from the belief that there is always more than enough of whatever you need...love, money.. whatever.
YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED IN LESS THAN 2 WEEKS! How exciting!!!!!
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I am with you... I am so happy the florist takes credit cards, cause we don't have enough saved to pay them... We can pay the limo's and the DJ...
I had my emotional breakdown months ago when I realized we weren't going to be able to do this...
tropicalbride07
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100% my FH is optimistic,,,,but I am worried about it!
ejm1219
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I am having the same problems. My budget went out the door! I think money grows on trees. It would be nice though :) When your cc bill comes in, you just pay the minimum. Some people call buying a house when you can't afford it 'house poor' I am calling myself 'wedding poor'.
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Posted by Keywi231
I feel your pain me and FH took out a nice size loan for this wedding and we don't start paying it back until a month after the wedding I don't know how we are going to do it either but it will work out you just have to think positive thoughts!!
did you really!?? good luck.. that's was a rule that FH & I made no loans no matter what.... pay in cash...
Mooshyboo
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Yes we totally have the sane worries!! Hang in there sweetie! If will work out... hugs for you
Tracyann1976
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Mandyin2007
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Everything will work out!
ewickens
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Hang in there, your perfect day is coming and that's all that matters!
