i hate family

Im having the same problem. Im still working on seating.

I was thinking of making that saying into a T-shirt. I received everyone's advice on the seating charts. I basically pretended to listen to everyone's advice but of course, I let it all go in one ear and out the other.
I did the seating chart how I needed it to work out. I had a few pissed off people, but too bad. This was my wedding and I was not about to have uneven tables because I had to split up family who couldn't talk to each other. Trust me, it worked out fine

I understand what you are going through since we have several divorced families involved with our wedding. There is no possible way to make everyone happy in this situation. The only thing that truly matters is that you and your FH are happy...everyone else has to try to put this in perspective, you know?

It sounds like you have done the best that you can with the seating. Try to accommodate people if you can without making yourself crazy, then let it go. They will just have to deal with it. Your wedding is going to be beautiful and whenever family starts saying things to you just remind yourself that in a couple of weeks you are going to marry the man of your dreams.

Although we did't have to deal with divorced families, we had our share of issues with the seating as well. We got to a point and FH suggested putting all their names in a hat and chooe their tables randomlyIt's frustrating, but it does work out. Hang in there.

UGH! that's frustrating! sorry you're going through this.

wouldn't it be awesome if everyone picked their OWN seat?! kind of like flying on Southwest