even though were no where near the wedding still have a while, she always fights with me about the fact that i will have NO strippers on my bachelor party, i dont go to strip clubs etc..not that type i care about her..but forget me, what about my buddies, they'll be pissed, i keep telling her its ONE DAY, not a big deal, i reassure her, but shes stuck on her ways...she says no No NO... i can understand how they make her feel comfortable..and even if we do decide to have some we were gona go to a strip club, not invite them over to some hotel room or my bedroom...geez... i think some girls need to relax a bit... if u dont care about ur FH atleast care about his boys...its embarassing! they think im 'whipped' or she has me eating out the palm of her hand... or im her slave...
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groomzilla Galore 2
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i already am the hero, im marrying her
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so if i go to a strip club, i will be STRIPPED [no pun intended] hehe if the title 'hero' everything i did for, everytime im there for her, all our moments will mean nothing, because of some stupid girl dancing naked...which i only want for my friends..
geez u girls need to LIGHTEN up...
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I personally think the whole 'strip club' thing is stupid. I think the whole bachelor/bachelorette party is stupid too. You had your whole single life to do these sort of things. These parties are just an excuse for the friends.
I bet most men can count on one hand how many times they've been to a strip club when they were single and it WASN'T a bachelor party.
I think it's silly to fight over it. If it makes her that upset, be creative and do something else, especially if you aren't even into it. You're gonna fight with your FW over your friends??? Is it worth it?
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why are you guys fighting about this now? does she bring it up or you? what do you want? do you want to go to the strip club because your buddies want you to? I think that whole stripper thing for bachelor parties is overrated. My DH went to chelsea piers and did stuff there and got drunk. He said he didn't want strippers. Don't let your friends pressure you into something you don't really want to do.
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I understand both sides, its a rough situation. I personally HATE the thought of strip clubs but my thoughts were exact- his single FRIENDS will be pissed!!! I personally dont even WANT a bachelorette party, going out to a dinner with my girls, or even a joint bachelor/bachelorette party is fine with me, but not for nothin- if HES seeing t!ts that night, im seeing d!ck!!!!!!!
good luck with whatever may come of this...
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...which i only want for my friends..
geez u girls need to LIGHTEN up...
your not marrying your friends.
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geez u girls need to LIGHTEN up...
There is no need to be rude - if you don't want to hear opinions then don't ask for help
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why are you guys fighting about this now? does she bring it up or you? what do you want? do you want to go to the strip club because your buddies want you to? I think that whole stripper thing for bachelor parties is overrated. My DH went to chelsea piers and did stuff there and got drunk. He said he didn't want strippers. Don't let your friends pressure you into something you don't really want to do.
I had my 'bachelorette party' at Chelsea Piers. A day at the spa and free classes. Then we went to dinner.
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Why not go golfing to Myrtle beach for the weekend? Or plan a his & hers bachlor-ette party?
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Personally I don't see anything wrong with going to a strip club. Have you ever brought her to one with you? Maybe if you bring her she'll realize that it really isn't a big deal.
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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ
why are you guys fighting about this now? does she bring it up or you? what do you want? do you want to go to the strip club because your buddies want you to? I think that whole stripper thing for bachelor parties is overrated. My DH went to chelsea piers and did stuff there and got drunk. He said he didn't want strippers. Don't let your friends pressure you into something you don't really want to do.
I had my 'bachelorette party' at Chelsea Piers. A day at the spa and free classes. Then we went to dinner.
I think they did bowling and the batting cages and then went to dinner and bars and a club.
I had my 'bachelorette party' at a spa too - we went to mohegan sun.
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Grow up, and grow some B****'s I think its pathetic that men let their 'boyz' dictate what they should have on THEIR NITE OUT!!!
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You have to try to respect her feelings with this. But if she is confident in your love for her and her love for you I do not see what the big deal is. Personally I agree with what one of the other girls said if he is seeing t!ts that night I am seeing d!ck. But maybe try to talk to her and see what really bothers her about you going to a strip club. But if this is going to continue to be an issue then maybe you should just drop the idea of the strip club and respect her wishes. In the long run will one night of t!ts be worth fighting over????
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Grow up, and grow some B****'s I think its pathetic that men let their 'boyz' dictate what they should have on THEIR NITE OUT!!!
You really can't blame him. I can understand how guys can rip on each other. What's the big deal with going to a strip club though? It's not like he's asking to be unfaithful.
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if HES seeing t!ts that night, im seeing d!ck!!!!!!!
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Personally I don't see anything wrong with going to a strip club. Have you ever brought her to one with you? Maybe if you bring her she'll realize that it really isn't a big deal.
completely agree i dont see anything wrong with strip clubs and even if i did - FH is not planning his own bach party his brother is. . . so its not like i have a say in it anyway lol
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Posted by soontobe2007
Grow up, and grow some B****'s I think its pathetic that men let their 'boyz' dictate what they should have on THEIR NITE OUT!!!
You really can't blame him. I can understand how guys can rip on each other. What's the big deal with going to a strip club though? It's not like he's asking to be unfaithful.
It sounds like he doesnt even want to go...I just feel that if his friends will 'rip' on him for saying hes not into strip clubs then maybe they arent that good of friends to begin with.
