even though were no where near the wedding still have a while, she always fights with me about the fact that i will have NO strippers on my bachelor party, i dont go to strip clubs etc..not that type i care about her..but forget me, what about my buddies, they'll be pissed, i keep telling her its ONE DAY, not a big deal, i reassure her, but shes stuck on her ways...she says no No NO... i can understand how they make her feel comfortable..and even if we do decide to have some we were gona go to a strip club, not invite them over to some hotel room or my bedroom...geez... i think some girls need to relax a bit... if u dont care about ur FH atleast care about his boys...its embarassing! they think im 'whipped' or she has me eating out the palm of her hand... or im her slave...
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Personally I don't see anything wrong with going to a strip club. Have you ever brought her to one with you? Maybe if you bring her she'll realize that it really isn't a big deal.
completely agree i dont see anything wrong with strip clubs and even if i did - FH is not planning his own bach party his brother is. . . so its not like i have a say in it anyway lol
I don't either. But if its causing that much of a strain in their relationship, is it really worth it?
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I'm sorry, but if it's that big of a deal to your FW, then suck it up and respect her feelings.
FH would never dream of fighting with me over something as stupid as seeing another woman naked if he knew it would upset me that much. Pick your battles. Your friends can go to strip clubs if they need to see strippers - they don't need your bachelor party to do that. I'm sorry, but that's a lame excuse to get strippers at your bachelor party.
This woman is going to be your WIFE - are strippers really worth upsetting her THIS much?
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Why is it necessary to go to a strip club?
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I'm sorry, but if it's that big of a deal to your FW, then suck it up and respect her feelings.
FH would never dream of fighting with me over something as stupid as seeing another woman naked if he knew it would upset me that much. Pick your battles. Your friends can go to strip clubs if they need to see strippers - they don't need your bachelor party to do that. I'm sorry, but that's a lame excuse to get strippers at your bachelor party.
This woman is going to be your WIFE - are strippers really worth upsetting her THIS much?
AMEN
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I'm sorry, but if it's that big of a deal to your FW, then suck it up and respect her feelings.
FH would never dream of fighting with me over something as stupid as seeing another woman naked if he knew it would upset me that much. Pick your battles. Your friends can go to strip clubs if they need to see strippers - they don't need your bachelor party to do that. I'm sorry, but that's a lame excuse to get strippers at your bachelor party.
This woman is going to be your WIFE - are strippers really worth upsetting her THIS much?
hope i did this link works but maybe this is why men shouldn't have strippers at their bach party. I give the bride in the thread credit I would have called off the wedding and disowned my family.
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I have to say, I too am not crazy over the strip club thing. My FH has been to a million of them for B-parties and he thinks they are gross. He could care less about what his friends want to do, he rather play golf and hit up a bar for drinks. If his friends had anything to say, he would tell them not to go. I just think that if you go to please your friends you should remember who is most important to please.
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I think it was a bad idea for him to ask a bunch of women this question!! Sorry Mr. Groomzilla!
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I hear you and for that exact reason I don't care what my FH does for his bachelor party. The party is definitely more for his friends then him, he isn't planning it and if they go to a strip club they go to a strip club. I don't see it as disrespectful to me. I wouldn't want him to tell me what I can/can't do for my bachelorette party so I have the same respect for him. But you need to find a happy medium for you and your FW.
hope i did this link works but maybe this is why men shouldn't have strippers at their bach party. I give the bride in the thread credit I would have called off the wedding and disowned my family.
hope i did this link works but maybe this is why men shouldn't have strippers at their bach party. I give the bride in the thread credit I would have called off the wedding and disowned my family.
O M G that story made me SICK!!!! My stomach is FLIPPING for that poor girl
hope i did this link works but maybe this is why men shouldn't have strippers at their bach party. I give the bride in the thread credit I would have called off the wedding and disowned my family.
O M G that story made me SICK!!!! My stomach is FLIPPING for that poor girl
BA$TARDS!!!!
WOW! HOW AWFUL!!!!!!!!!!
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I think it was a bad idea for him to ask a bunch of women this question!! Sorry Mr. Groomzilla!
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you're supposed to do something that YOU wanna do for your bachelor party. not what your friends wanna do. FH hates strippers and all of that so he'll probably go to mohegan sun for 2 days and gamble and drink. thats what he wants to do so thats what everyone will do!
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So you prefer that your wife get upset at you instead of your friends?
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I think it was a bad idea for him to ask a bunch of women this question!! Sorry Mr. Groomzilla!
what were you going to post? I am sooo curious now! FM me!
hope i did this link works but maybe this is why men shouldn't have strippers at their bach party. I give the bride in the thread credit I would have called off the wedding and disowned my family.
Ugh! I'm okay with strip clubs, but I do agree that having a 'stripper' (aka whore) in a private place is crossing the line.
