I HATE HER - UPDATED with story

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!

wow wow wow

you were way too nice to her ( but i understand out of respect to your FH your hands are tied )

but WOW
WOW
WOW
if he were such an ADULT he would have done it already and hence no need for the email.

o m g i am FUMING RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by blurgirlny

Wow, she *****. But now I feel bad because I did something like that once.

My FH is a bad boy. He has this one friend who lives in the middle of nowhere in PA. He visits him once a year and I was 'sick' this year and got out of going. I hate going. Anyway, his fiance called me asking why FH brought all that beer there and how they've been drinking all night and how now because of my FH they will not be able to attend Church in the morning and how FH has her guy smoking cigs, etc.

I went off on her and said 'TELL HIM YOURSELF. I have no control over my fiance. If you have a problem with him, don't call me about it. Talk to him!'

I hope that's not like the same deal. If I were you, I too would have copied everyone hoping they'd be more reliable as girls. Ya know?

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Yes - but in your situation she was complaining and complaining and wouldn't stop.... In my case - i emailed the girl.....nothing more - nothing less....

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Posted by skinny237

I probably would have told her not to come to the wedding. U were very nice to her. What a beeeeatch!

R these people that you have to hang out w/ a lot?

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We used to - but she gets weird & then we don't go over....

She has freaked out like this before.. I DO NOT want her at our wedding - to be honest - I never did...

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Posted by davenjess
I probably should've left it alone at that point - but i couldn't.....and replied:

Apparently, I have hit a nerve & don't understand why or how.

Bob has been reminded about the suit measuring no less than 15 times by Dave. Every single time they are on the phone (and they are typically on the phone weekly), Dave reminds him.

He has been emailed about it no less than 6-7 times.

I apologize for copying you on the email thinking
maybe you could help out and remind him as well. It won't happen again.

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What a snippy bittch she is! Great reply you gave!! I wouldn't have let her get the last word. I can't believe all the ???s... Come on now.

Good for you Jess! I hate her as well.

you did NOT do anything wrong...OMG!! i'm so mad for you!! i cannot believe the nerve of her...it's not like you're constantly spamming the woman..it's ONE little email! argh!

Oh wait - i didn't even tell you the best part!!!!!!

The last time Dave asked BOB about the suit - dude, get measured, etc....

Bob told him that he went and saw the suit but didn't get measured. BOLD FACED LIE!!!!!!!!!!!

They do NOT carry the suits in store - they have to send out for them - which is why it's SO important to get measured....so why bother lieing?????

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Posted by blurgirlny

Now she's made it all weird for you guys. You may be cooler than me - I'd be weird. Some girls let things brush off, but I'd feel funny that she got all crazy. Maybe she's jealous that you are getting married?

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She's already married & has a kid with Bob. It is both of their second marriages...

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Posted by beachbum05

WHAT!???????????

I'm with Dani - I'll help too.

What a beyotch!

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lets roll...I've got special cans of whoop a s s for beyotches like this one

say the word Jess, say the word

Now i am going to tell you to do something that i would never do personally bc i dont have the guts and i dont like to cause trouble

you should tell FH to call his BM and tell him that his wife was direspectful to you and that it was uncalled for!

But I wouldnt do it so i feel like i cant tell you to do it LOL

She has ISSUES!!!!!!

wow sweetie how does someone piss yiou off???????????????????????

ill beat her asssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT A FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hold your head up high and just be thankful you are a good person & don't have the issues like she does!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

Now i am going to tell you to do something that i would never do personally bc i dont have the guts and i dont like to cause trouble

you should tell FH to call his BM and tell him that his wife was direspectful to you and that it was uncalled for!

But I wouldnt do it so i feel like i cant tell you to do it LOL

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100% agree and that's why I woudl do and if FH said no and that witch wrote me back I would lace into her without restraint.

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Posted by davenjess

Here's the whole thing...

One of his BM - let's call him BOB.

Bob has been asked to be measured for his suit probably, let's be safe and call it 25 times. Every single time Dave has spoken to him on the phone (just about 1-2 times a week) - he has reminded him about it.

I have sent probably 6-9 emails asking them to be measured (to all the guys).

Today I called the suit place & found out that he & one other person are still not measured....so I email both guys & copy their wives. This was HER reply:

Why am I getting this?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
???????????????????????????????????????????
???????????????????????????????????????????
I'm not Bobs mother. He has his OWN email address and his OWN cell phone to be
contacted at. Bob's an adult and I treat him like one....not like a child.
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I KID YOU NOT LADIES - that was her reply to me!

this was my reply back:

and bob's email was on that list too. your email and valerie's email are on there for the same reason - as an fyi....
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This was her reply back:

I don't need an FYI. Bob is the ONLY one who needs to do this and the ONLY one who needed to be emailed. Again, he's an adult and I treat him like one.
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I probably should've left it alone at that point - but i couldn't.....and replied:

Apparently, I have hit a nerve & don't understand why or how.

Bob has been reminded about the suit measuring no less than 15 times by Dave. Every single time they are on the phone (and they are typically on the phone weekly), Dave reminds him.

He has been emailed about it no less than 6-7 times.

I apologize for copying you on the email thinking
maybe you could help out and remind him as well. It won't happen again.

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UGHHHHHHHHHH what a A-hole!!!!

Jess would you like me to kick her a$$??
just give me her address

sorry you have to go through this Jess

good lordy she was nasty to you!!!

You should send her this pic:



Saucer of milk....Party of ONE...your table is ready

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Posted by ant n tilde

Now i am going to tell you to do something that i would never do personally bc i dont have the guts and i dont like to cause trouble

you should tell FH to call his BM and tell him that his wife was direspectful to you and that it was uncalled for!

But I wouldnt do it so i feel like i cant tell you to do it LOL

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I just hung up with Dave & told him everything. He said to take solace in the fact that everyone in 'the group' (his group of friends) knows she's CRAZY....

He said he'll expect a phone call from Bob soon & he'll tell him to just give it up and get measured & end the whole thing.

Dave is VERY VERY laid back - he would never call Bob & tell him the disrespectful thing....he would never start something like that...