Up date: He apolgized. He had not reason to give me a hard time because he owns his own business and has plenty of people working for him. He even asked me how to order the rest of the out fit and gave me no more trouble. Dave (BM) is a nice guy, but every now and then he just gets on your nerves. And with all the stress going on I really did not NEED that. Any way hes fine now and isn't going to give me any more greif. He felt bad for upsetting me. I think my FH had a little talk with him. I was very upset. And my FH really didn't this greif with him, after working 12 hr shifts five days in a row with the flue on top of it. But I got a full apogly and he said he didn't mean to upset me, he just wanted me to have a nice wedding with all my friends. I feel better. I was really upset. Girls I'm sorry I haven't been around much. I've just been so busy. And when this happened, I only had you guys to turn to. Everyone else told me just to blow it off, but you all understand what I feeling. Thank you all. I'll try to be on more, I've just had so much to do. But I do check up once and while. I'll try to do that more often. Girls thank you SOOOOO MUCH!!!!!! I know I'm not a bridizalla, but you know maybe I should be! I'm too nice to my guest, family and bridal party! Girls best of luck to all the brides getting married this week!!! May you have beautiful weather! Thank you all!
Bonnie
My best man who has been aware of the wedding date for nearly four yrs and is now giving me a hard time about it being on a FRIDAY 31 days before the wedding date!!!! I told him flat out, don't go! If its too hard for him to take the time off, don't go. I was getting crap from people that my wedding was too late when I had it down from 8pm. So I changed it! I got crap from my fh because I orginoally wanted on Friday the 13 of October, so I changed it! Now I'm getting crap from him because its on a damn Friday!!! I told him if I changed it now I would have to pay 3X's as much as I would for a Friday and his answer was 'Duh! Because thats when people have their weddings!' Hes trying to tell me more people would come on a Saturday. That its rude of me to invite people on a day they need to work! He is driving me NUTS!!! I had to give him the date a hundred times in the past month or two!!! And I said its 'on a friday' and now hes giving me a hard time!!! What the hell is wrong people! I've had it! I want to elope! I'm tired of everyone single person giving me a hard time about MY DAY!!! I'm sick of it!!!!! UGGGGG.....
Sorry I feel better. I needed to vent.
DandS
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I am so sorry he is giving you a hard time! Please don't think you made a bad decision by booking your wedding on a Friday night. That is a VERY popular day and to be honest with you, Thursday is even becoming popular now. If you booked it for a Saturday night, someone would have something to say about that as well. You will not be able to please everyone, but as long as you and FH are happy, don't worry about what other people think (unless they want to contribute a lot of money to help pay the difference). I am SO sorry your best man is doing this to you!!!!!
Wintersbride
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Yeah, people like to say silly things like that. I'd say if they were willing to pay for the wedding they can choose the day we have it. However, not everyone can afford a Saturday wedding. Mine was on a Sunday...evening at that...and I got some comments. Whatever, don't let it bother you...not worth it.
LaurenluvsTJ
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I am glad it worked out Bonnie!! Where have you been, I was thinking about you the other day, I can't wait to see pics of your wedding!