im sooooooo over this stupid guest list!! uuuggghhhhh
FILs made their list... 112 people we have 100 people and my parents have 50 ... SORRRY lady your not having more people the the bride and groom!
my parents are willing to pay for 200 people. 50 for them, 50 for the outlaws, and 100 for us. fair.
FMIL decides that its not fair, and they should able to invite all their friends and family. so I said ok you are more than welcome to invite them, you just have to pay the difference... well they want to cut now..
if they are so important to you tht you want them invited and its ok for MY parents to pay, WHY oh WHY are they not important enough for YOU to pay
cause your cheap!
(please send wine... ASAP!)
Shanti12
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i hate this already
What a jerk!!
RissyRoo
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i hate this already
14er crashing... I'm two years away and I'm already having this problem!! After we told her the same thing (she can have an equal amount but she has to pay the difference on people that are over), she immediately started cutting it down. We only started gathering a list this early because we KNEW this was gonna be a problem...
Don't get me wrong, I love my FMIL, she has a heart of gold, but sometimes man... wheewwwww
Kristin31613
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Posted by angelicd77
I never really understood why parents feel the need to invite their friends to their childrens weddings. Its one thing if the bride and groom know these people but if we dont then why in the H*LL would we want them there?!?!? UGH I just dont get it...
No I get them wanting some of their close friends there. I would want the same but my parents are paying for their friends to be there, which is what should be done!
cj52514
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i mean she invited her freakin EYE doctor
This made me literally
I'm sorry you're dealing with this drama! I can't believe he said that to you! Yeah buddy...you want the people at the wedding that badly, YOU can pay for some too!!
fdnybride163
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Fh was pissed. He said to his dad HE wasn't even inviting people he worked with why the Efff does ffil think that he can have 6 couples??
It actually make me think how much I love Fh bc he stood up to him.
Kristin31613
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Posted by cj52514
i mean she invited her freakin EYE doctor
This made me literally
jacktart86
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i hate this already
Future 2014 bride as well OMG. This makes me so mad too. I feel like this is one of the biggest issues, which is why we wrote out the lists earlier. And I agree with what someone said above. No pay, then no say.