I HATE VERBAL RSVP's

nifheim Posted: Feb 13, 2008 07:49 AM

I HATE VERBAL RSVP's

Last night I had to take a few of them! People are just so freaking annoying when they have to tell me on the phone that they are going to go but too lazy to send the card back. JERKS!

Also now have to have some extra cash on me for the night of the wedding because four family members might show up the night of that declined because they are currently ill. So remember girls just have a bit extra just in case this happens to you.

Tonight: 2nd fitting, bustle/veil must be picked out.

This weekend: Wedding Cert., My bach party in DC

Next week: Hair trial, BP start going for fittings, RB does Tux, SEATING CHART, doing favors, wrapping BP gifts

Still have to meet with the DJ, meet with the guy marrying us and FH has his bach party in early March. WOW busy busy busy!!!

Kimbalina Posted: Feb 13, 2008 07:50 AM

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Tell them to send it back! You want to keep them for sentimental purposes!

nifheim Posted: Feb 13, 2008 07:52 AM

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still haven't counted them in my numbers yet but will have to if they don't return them like i asked.

I just don't understand why it is so hard.

anamaree77 Posted: Feb 13, 2008 07:53 AM

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Yea people can be like that..........what can ya do!! Don't let it bother u

MrsK2008 Posted: Feb 13, 2008 09:06 AM

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Posted by nifheim

still haven't counted them in my numbers yet but will have to if they don't return them like i asked.

I just don't understand why it is so hard.

if people showed up at my wedding after declining I think I might blow a gasket!

I never considered keeping cash on hand for strays!

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Feb 13, 2008 09:10 AM

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Wow- you are busy busy busy!!!!

I agree with the verbal RSVPs.. It's like why the EFF did I spend .41 on postage..just write your freekin name and drop it in the mail.

I also dont feel like people are really coming if they cant take the time to mail it, ya know.

missliss Posted: Feb 13, 2008 09:10 AM

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The same exact thing is happening to me right now....our RSVP date is this Friday and we're still missing a TON!!!! The best is the people that I 'nudge' to send them back are like...'you know I'm coming'.

I don't care whether you TELL me. Why can't you just SEND IT BACK?!?!?!?!?!

LoveRocks Posted: Feb 13, 2008 09:20 AM

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Ugh RSVPs were the worst!! It will be over soon-- hang in there, girl!

And yes, people are JERKS!!

nifheim Posted: Feb 13, 2008 11:43 AM

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Posted by LoveRocks

Ugh RSVPs were the worst!! It will be over soon-- hang in there, girl!

And yes, people are JERKS!!

I am just at least happy some family gave me warning they just might show up the day of if they feel better. Grrr that would suck not having enough money to cover them. CAN'T WAIT TO SEE MORE PICS of your wed girl!

GtBride Posted: Feb 13, 2008 11:47 AM

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Posted by nifheim

still haven't counted them in my numbers yet but will have to if they don't return them like i asked.

I just don't understand why it is so hard.

I feel the same way. I put a stamp and all these people have to do is check yes or no and put their names on it. My due date was feb 1st. I am still getting them and it pisses me off. I am waiting for 25 of them still. My dad said to me this morning who cares don't even bother calling when they show up and wonder where they are sitting we will be like 'oh we never got your card before the 1st' But, then that would piss me off too! People are extremely rude!