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ok..ive been thinking about it all day..but im not sure what to do..ok heres the story..i dated this kid in highschool..from like age 16-21...we broke up for 2 years then started dating again..unfortunately he passed away..5 years ago today..i was and still am very close to his family..of course i dont see them often because im busy and plus i do feel guilty sometimes..even though i know they love me and want me to be happy..heres the thing..when i first got engaged all i kept saying to myself was that im inviting chris's family..because they are like family..but when i spoke to his mom a few months ago she was so happy for me..i told her i want to be there for my big day. there was a silence for a second and she was like sure i will go..your still my daughter..but it sounded wierd..i talked to fh and he was like well i didnt want to say anything to you because i know hwo you feel about them.but he said that they probably wont feel right watchingme get married and their son is passed on..they always used to say to me i know you loved chris..i know you guys would have gotten married..WHAT DO I DO..i want to uninvite them.i feel awkward now..and i know for a fact they do too. how do i get out of this. without hurting them..i feel i should keep my relationship with them..just between us..and not bring them into my new life..its always nice to visit them once in a while..im just bugging out..i guess becuase its his 5 year anniversary and i didnt even call them today or send flowers..im feeling guilty. they are such great people..any suggestions? sorry so long
i was in a similiar situation and i invited his mother. I figured she could respond no if she wanted to - if she felt uncomfortable. I miss him soo much, like i am sure that you miss Chris. I say invite them. they will let you know if they can't make it. let them decide.
