I have officially become a bridezilla

I have officially become a bridezilla

I just went off in an email to my MOH and one of my BMs.

I managed to get the times they have to show up to the hotel to be later and they are both STILL griping that it's too early!!! I told one of them 10am and the other 10:30am!!!! What the hell time do you expect to show up when the limos are coming at 1:30 and we all need to get hair or makeup done and get dressed??!!!

THEN my MOH tells me she would have to leave at 6-7am and she needs to spend time with her son before she leaves. Fine, but how can you say this when YOU ARE BRINGING HIM WITH YOU TO THE WEDDING??!!!

Then the BM keeps griping to me about how much she is spending on my wedding!!! You know what, you should have thought of that before you agreed!!! And I don't need to hear you complaining about spending $300 on the dress including alterations when my alterations ALONE cost more than that!!!!

I am so done with my bridal party. Only 3 girls have not given me any problems whatsoever and I am close to making one of them my MOH and telling these 2 to take a hike!!! I should not have to run to Roosevelt Field in the rain with a splint on my leg to try to find another hair and makeup person!!!! AUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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What size are their dresses. I can fill in if you want!

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Janna, Deep breaths!!! You will be marrying the man if your dreams in almost two weeks , all this Bridesmaid crap will be trivial!!

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I believe 10 and 8, or they're both 10. I'm not sure.

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Posted by MayBride06

Janna, Deep breaths!!! You will be marrying the man if your dreams in almost two weeks , all this Bridesmaid crap will be trivial!!

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You mean 3 weeks!!! Don't try to make it sooner than it is!!

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I wear a 10 too (now)....I could be a fill in

Janna, hang in there, things will work out. Sorry for all the stress/drama

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and don't call yourself a bridezilla! It's not your fault THEY'RE making things difficult for you. I'm sorry they're putting you through this so close to YOUR DAY. It will work out... don't be hard on yourself... be hard on THEM! If either one of them has been married, they should know you don't need this right now... and they're supposed to be making things as easy as possible for you - not the opposite.

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Posted by BKtoLI

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Posted by MayBride06

Janna, Deep breaths!!! You will be marrying the man if your dreams in almost two weeks , all this Bridesmaid crap will be trivial!!

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You mean 3 weeks!!! Don't try to make it sooner than it is!!

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sorry, three weeks!!

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Janna-I would so let go of these A$$HOLES that are giving you a hard time and are telling you how much $$ they are spending on your wedding! The nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUMP THEM! Have lovely and swanky Leslie fill in for them!

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why dont you just have them get their hair and makeup done on their own, and they can meet up with you at the hotel around twelve?

very annoying, i'm sorry u are going through this

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ur not a bridezilla at all! 10:00 is more then reasonable, its ur wedding for g-ds sake, what r they gona do get ready 15 minutes b4 the wedding, i imagine on a weekday they dont tell their Boss oh sorry 10:00 is too early for me to come into work If it was me, i would tell them b there at 10:00 OR do there own makeup/hair OR take a hike..sorry ur going threw this

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I said it before, I'll say it again . . . F*** them!! I am very proud of you for finally sending the e-mail telling them off! They will either step up to the plate, or not. Either way, your day will be special. The girls from LIW will make sure of it!!!!!

I'm pretty sure I'll fit into the 8!

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it's one day of their lives, for God's sake!

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you're NOT a bridezilla!! this had to be done- you needed to tell them off, and i'm proud of you!! its ONE DAY of their lives, and they've had MORE than enough time to plan for it.... its their problem, because they should have thought abuot all this before they agreed to do it..... hopefully, this will wake them up and they'll step up to the plate....

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You should ont blame yourself at all. I would go into total freak out mode if my friends did that to me. I certianly don't think you are asking to much.

I hope it all works out!

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OMG...If I were you I would let these girls go. They are being so selfish, I wouldn't want them to ruin my day. You are not being a Bridezilla.

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f 'em. that's what FH says. i've started living by that motto. don't sweat it....BMs have this long running history of complaining about it all....it's just what some of them do. sorry. relax and indulge yourself and forget they exist for a week or so and all should be ok.

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Posted by October Bliss

I said it before, I'll say it again . . . F*** them!! I am very proud of you for finally sending the e-mail telling them off! They will either step up to the plate, or not. Either way, your day will be special. The girls from LIW will make sure of it!!!!!

I'm pretty sure I'll fit into the 8!

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I agree 100% with Darlene. If they can't step outside of their own worlds and be there for you on your wedding day, then F**K 'em! You don't need this level of stress with everything else going on. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.