i have such a big dress dilemma and i need your opinions ladies <3 thank you

They said if i change my mind and see something else I have 2 weeks without loosing anything... I have to let them know by Friday...
ladies i am torn between two dress tops... it is so frustrating because I like them both..

Here is the link for the original dress i picked out and put the deposit for..
http://www.priscillaofboston.com/dress_detail.jsp?search=pl246&sfid=50795&f=

and now i love the detail of the top of this one... but might it be too much? http://www.priscillaofboston.com/dress_detail.jsp?search=pl109&sfid=300&f=



I dont know how to put the pictures up in my post so if any of you ladies can tell me id love that!!

I asked if I could take the bottom of the first dress (the first link) and put it under the second pictures bottom (second link) and they said that can be done..

Should i stick to the original dress or take the top of the second?


p.s- the top of the second dress would not be sweetheart, but rather tubetop or slight scoop. thanks ladies! i really need your help