Ok so i have to vent.. i just finally got official notice that my fh's friend that is getting married , is getting married the day before mine.. and the girl who booked it that day, knew that mine was the day after.. so now im afraid all of his friends that are going to that one, will not attend mine.. being that it is a sunday affair.. is that messed up or what??
mclane
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honestly, if that were my FH- he'd have it out with her FH. What the fark is her problem?
some people!
sk1nny27
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that stinks. at least your wedding starts at 3 should give people time to recouperate. dont worry about it.
luvmypup
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i think he is gonna try to talk to her FH about it. he was well aware what day mine was.. is it too early to send out STD's?? now that im getting nervous.. im afraid this is gonna stress me out..
scocaj
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I am so sorry.. that is so wrong.. Do you want me to kick her butt..
Soon2BMrsB
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What's wrong with people??!!
mtdr1106
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WOW!!! i would have hit the ROOF!!!
that is majorly messed up.......sometimes i think people go LOOKING for problems or competiton. i know that you should NEVER dictate or tell someone when they can get married based on your own wedding - truthfully that is totally selfish - but to plan your wedding the DAY BEFORE YOUR FRIENDS it ludicrious!!!!!!!!!!!
the stress levels alone will send you spinning!! financially, even planning wise - how much will you be able to give of yourself to them to help them with their plans when you are trying to plan your own wedding, shower, bachelorette party, invites, etc.....and vice versa....
i'm really sorry...totally suxs...
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They is sooo messed up!!1 I would be soo mad too! That's ok..i have a better one....someone from my FH's side just got enaged 2 weeks ago and might consider getting married on the SAME DAY AS US...and get this....AT THE SAME HALL!!!!!! It is not definate, but they considered it....pleeeeezzzeee I have learned to say...'WHATEVER!!!! '
luvmypup
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omg! that really sux.. and i thought i had it bad.. im just annoyed that they would do that to really good friends.. cant wait 2 weeks..you know? so now its competition and i hate that.. and now i have to pick out STD's like soon... thanks so much everyone for your opinions..
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Posted by Soon2BMrsB
What's wrong with people??!!
Seriously....Don't people think? I don't understand why someone goes out of their way to be so rude.
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Posted by gNi1125
Considering she knew your wedding date and if you guys share many mutual friends that's kinda stupid on her part. I wouldn't worry...that wouldn't stop me from going to someone's wedding I cared about. The people who love you guys will be there regardless.
I agree!!!
J&D 09/16
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My sister's friend actually had her wedding on the same day and in the same church as a mutual friend of their's . And then tried to get the church to bump the friend to another time. talk about rude!!
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Some nerve! Some people are just crazy!
BEANS
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She has really got some set of BALLS! I would totally have to say somehting to her.
junebride:)
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I am so sorry! I'm sure your wedding will be better.
October Bliss
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Posted by luvmypup
is it too early to send out STD's??
IMO it's not too early to send out STD's. We just did our e-pics and are designing them now. I want them out before x-mas and before the postage rate increase in January.
luvmypup
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postage is increasing?? to how much? that sux.. more money for invitations..
GsCM4EVA
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omg..id be freakin steaming...im sorry that is just wrong. when people know your date, and do that-they are just lookign for trouble....omg im gettin mad just THINKING abot it
luvmypup
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omg !im mad everyday. its now competition and i hate that .. i just seriously cant belive it you know??
mtdr1106
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Posted by luvmypup
omg !im mad everyday. its now competition and i hate that .. i just seriously cant belive it you know??
did you say anything? what does FH think?
luvmypup
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well.. some of his friends know how upset i am. so by that , im hoping it comes back to them and they find out how upset i am.. FH just keeps saying 'who cares' .. hes a guy. he doesnt understand.. but he does think it is effed up to some level.. i cant wait to send the STD's and not include them.. ughhhh
