i just found out that you dont see your fh the night before wedding either

lishbone Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:30 PM

i just found out that you dont see your fh the night before wedding either

oooopsss i messed up...anyway where is everyones fh sleeping the night before? im not going to be able to sleep without him..i had no idea that you dont see them the day before..especially since i live with him

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:31 PM

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It depends on the person. I saw my DH the night before the wedding.

suven Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:32 PM

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It's just an old tradition.

It got blown for us because his 2 cousins (bridesmaids) started MAJOR DRAMA and I was hysterically crying, so he had to come and settle things with them and calm me down.

I just remember falling asleep while him and the best man were reviewing the song lists. The same song list that I forgot to bring to the wedding

Jen2999 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:34 PM

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I am going to see FH at the rehersla dinner, but we will prob sleep in diff places the night before

melissaandsean Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:35 PM

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you don't have to do this. Our families insisted, and we didn't see the big deal (compromises).

We saw each other the night before for the RD, then he went home with his family, and stayed at his brothers house, and I checked into the hotel. He called me the morning of our wedding to tell me how excited he was and that he couldn't wait to see me It was so great!

sarahbelle Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:35 PM

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I'm staying with my BP the night before the wedding. I think FH plans to stay at our apt.

lishbone Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:36 PM

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Posted by melissaandsean

you don't have to do this. Our families insisted, and we didn't see the big deal (compromises).

We saw each other the night before for the RD, then he went home with his family, and stayed at his brothers house, and I checked into the hotel. He called me the morning of our wedding to tell me how excited he was and that he couldn't wait to see me It was so great!

well thats the way im realizing it now..i think it would be kind of cool to not see him until you walk down the isle!!

M&LSept1606 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:37 PM

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I don't think you have to be apart the night before...you guys live together!

I'm seeing FH before the ceremony for pics so...I say anything goes. tradition smadition.

oakslady Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:38 PM

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fh stayed at the ransome inn in port jefferson with some of the bridal party - my maid of honor and i stayed at the white house on high street that is where we stayed on our wedding night - marge the owner is fantastic -

edsprincess Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:38 PM

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all of us, my family, his family and bp, will probally go out to eat the night before. then instead of me going home with him, ill go with my parents. i havent decided if my bp will sleep over. i feel the same. i dont know how i will sleep without him. im used to the body next to me for 2 1/2 yrs.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Jun 06, 2005 08:40 PM

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my FH is sleeping at the hotel the night before the wedding (where all the OOT will be). I will ABSOLUTELY see him the night before! it's bad enough that we won't be together all night and all morning

we live together as well. I don't know how I am going to sleep

katieshope Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:00 PM

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Posted by Jen2999

I am going to see FH at the rehersla dinner, but we will prob sleep in diff places the night before

Same with me

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:02 PM

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Posted by katieshope

Posted by Jen2999

I am going to see FH at the rehersla dinner, but we will prob sleep in diff places the night before

Same with me

Oh maybe I mis-understood.
I saw him the evening before ( we had dinner together) and then I checked into a hotel with my bms and he stayed at his moms house.

Backinneyork Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:07 PM

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We'll say goodbye at the rehearsal dinner and then not see each other til I walk down the aisle.

MrsStefan Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:10 PM

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I think I am going to sleep at my parents house where I grew up

rocky23 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:16 PM

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yeah im sleeping at my moms and hes sleeping at home but we are seeing eachother before we are married i wish I could sleep in my own bed at home with him.

Kim51103 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:24 PM

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My FH will stay at our apt....and I will sleep in my own bed for the very last time :(

Our Rehersal dinner might be the night before.....so then i will see him!!

TEDNJENN Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:24 PM

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he gets to stay home and i go to the hotel

Goldi1021 Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:30 PM

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By the time of the wedding we will be living together. But the night before the wedding, he gets kicked out and my MOH will stay with me.

bluesashbride Posted: Jun 06, 2005 09:35 PM

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we went to the RD and then split up at about 11 and said a nice goodnight...i didn't see him again until they opened the church doors...very romantic and just a cherished moment for me. we also lived together but got separate hotel rooms for the night before the wedding.