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I just got the worst phonecall...

Original post by Nanjoe

My sister just called me to tell me that a friend of ours has passed away. She was 41 years young. I am devestated and in total shock. She was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago. She went through her treatment and was doing great. About 9 months ago she was complaining of back pain and the doctors assured her it was s pinched nerve. After quite a few weeks of sever pain, they finally did a MRI and found that the so called pinched nerve was a mass on her spine. Well, after this news she became very distant from everyone around her. My sister and her friends would try to call, she wouldn't pick up the phone...they would stop by and she would invite them in but never ever speak of her ailments or complain that anything hurt. She was in a true denial state. I can't say much about how she did feel...good or bad...she just never spoke about it.
The reason for my post is just to ask you all for some prayers...she left 2 children behind. A daughter who is 14 and a son who is 11. They never knew the extent of how sick thier Mother really was. They are not doing well at all. I feel like I making no sense here and I am sorry for that, but I just wanted to tell you what happened because I knew speaking about it(well typing it) would make me feel a little better. She was an amazing person and always made you laugh. She was one of the funniest people I had ever known. My heart breaks for her kids and her parents. I pray that will all be ok.
Sorry for rambling on and making this so long.

Thanks for reading this ladies...

(sorry...I left this part out)
My sister also told me that the mass on her spine was cancer and that it had spread to her bones. She was suffering in silence with this horrible disease. I can't even imagine the pain she was in.

Thanks again,
Nancy
OctBride05 Posted:

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i am so sorry.

ChristineC68 Posted:

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I will def. keep them in my thoughts.
hugs213 Posted:

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So sorry
Marcela1654 Posted:

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I'm so sorry. They will be in my prayers
Latina511 Posted:

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I am sooooo sorry. I almost started crying reading it as it reminded me of my cousin that died last year or the same. It will be in my thoughts and prayers.
LizD Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss. You all will be in my prayers
Cindy Posted:

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I am so so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
joeslauren Posted:

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i am so sorry foer your loss. will keep her & family in my prayers
kittyke Posted:

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I am so sorry, my prayers are with you and all her love ones
februarybride Posted:

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I wish that they would find a cure for this disease. It's unbelievable how many people are affected and lose their life.

04Bride Posted:

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That brought tears to my eyes.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who has been affected by this terrible tradgedy.
My heart goes out to her two young children who are now without a MOMMY.
HeatherandNick Posted:

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I am so sorry
Leelee Posted:

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Nancy...all my love and thoughts are with you, your family and your friend's family at this difficult time. Her memory will live on...

All my love to you!!


larryswife2be Posted:

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I am praying for you, your friends and family.
dawnie Posted:

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I am so sorry.
Nanjoe Posted:

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Thank you all so much!! You really have no idea how much it means to me to have gotten all your replys and FM's.

My girlfriend called to tell me and my sister that her son is doing better than the rest of the family. He's the youngest and being very strong. Her daughter is just devastated. I am going to see them all tonight and be as strong as I can for her kids. I know that's what she would want.

Again, thank you!!! You are helping me get through this difficult time and I truly appreciate it.
jannshari Posted:

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I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to your friend's children. They are going to need all the support that they can get and they are lucky that their mom had such a caring friend in you.
JuneBabyBride Posted:

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lilmrs Posted:

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I am truely sorry for your loss!

SweetCin704 Posted:

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I'm very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and her family in my prayers.

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