I just have to ask....girls who are still waiting for your RSVPs..

Original post by beautyq115

May 24, 2006 09:53 PM

Do you look at your list each night and project who may or may not come....as you may have guessed I do this...sometimes a few times during the day......I am making myself crazy.....PLEAAAAAAAASE tell me other people do this

ewickens Posted: May 25, 2006 08:53 AM

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

KATHLEEN!!!! Stop driving yourself insane!!!!!
Whatever it will be it will be - there is nothing you can do about it! You are making yourself crazy for no reason!!
Cross each bridge as you come to it, trying to guess who is coming and who is not is going to drive you absolutely bonkers!

What Lauren said!!! Take some time off from the wedding Kathleen and relax!!

tbtmickey Posted: May 25, 2006 09:29 AM

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Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

idovig Posted: May 25, 2006 09:43 AM

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i'm still waiting and what kills me is that the immediate family are the ones taking forever, (you know the people you thought were definate yes and live near you)LOL

CLMon7906 Posted: May 25, 2006 09:47 AM

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i never did at first...but FFIL made me. so now i have a whole sep. spreasheet for it!

jakcat Posted: May 25, 2006 11:24 AM

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I never thought I would do this. . . but alas, I have But only because we expected most to reply yes. . . and even invited too many hoping for no's. . . but now, we have been slammed with too many no's. apparently kids graduate from high school in June sheesh. . . as if that's nearly as important as my wedding!! obviously I'm just kidding. . . hooray for the graduates. . . bad me for picking June 24th (who knew?) I just keep telling myself. . . it's okay. . . don't worry. . . the yes responses will come. . .but my rsvp date is next thursday. . .um. . . Hello? Would anyone care to join me at my wedding?? It's a once in a lifetime event. . . I promise you'll have fun. . . if only just a few of you would come. . . Just put the dang rsvp card in the addressed/stamped envelope and drop it in one of the million mailboxes that dot our busy streets. . . geez louise. . .

Just remember:

Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight--Benjamin Franklin. (But I'm still going to mentally calculate and project at least once daily )

SuzBride Posted: May 25, 2006 11:28 AM

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YES! I went through it with my mom even and I am projecting 185 yeses - even though I only wanted 150 Meanwhile at least 20 people have mentioned they are definitely coming or said 'see you at the wedidng' or that they can't wait for the wedding, and yet they haven't sent in the RSVP yet.

JCam695 Posted: May 25, 2006 01:42 PM

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I do it every day when I get response cards.

We are still waiting on over 60 people with only 1 week left til the RSVP date!

PKG06 Posted: May 25, 2006 02:05 PM

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I haven't sent out any invites, but I'm sure hoping I get quite a few no's...from his side that is

waterspout4 Posted: May 25, 2006 03:46 PM

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Yep, I did this too.

BTW: I'm still waiting on 20 responses. I've been married nearly 2 months.

kmkelly Posted: May 25, 2006 04:08 PM

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ABSOLUTELY, daily. My response date was 5/22 and I'm missing tons of responses. And I'm still way under my minimum.

CaseyVM214 Posted: May 25, 2006 04:09 PM

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Posted by cmbot

Today was the last day for my responses and I have ablut 10 people who have not yet replied. Do I just aassume they are not coming or do I have to call them.

I have a question about this also...do you call? or do you have someone else call ( a friend or something). I once heard that the bride and groom should not call.. Is that try?

blueyes678 Posted: May 25, 2006 04:13 PM

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I do!! Our RSVP date was YESTERDAY and we're STILL waiting for so many responses!! How can I do my seating chart without responses!!

iffer042373 Posted: May 25, 2006 04:17 PM

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Are you kidding me my FH thinks I have OCD cuz I look at it everynite. THe yeses I highlight in purple and the no's I highlight in Orange and I do the same with the response cards he thinks I am crazy. I also have put little marks next to the people who I don't think will come. Lets see how right we all are

larryswife2be Posted: May 25, 2006 09:21 PM

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Oh my goodness!!! EVERYDAY!!!!!!!!!! Some people are really annoying me with their lack of responding. It is rude and I REFUSE to call them and ask 'Hey, are you coming to my wedding?' like I don't have enough to do.

suzybilly819 Posted: May 27, 2006 09:14 PM

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No, not yet. I still have3 weeks left till the RSVP and don't have to give RH the final head count till 7/5

superkat Posted: May 27, 2006 10:11 PM

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I don't do it everynight. I do it multiple times per day!!!

beautyq115 Posted: May 27, 2006 11:10 PM

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Posted by iffer042373

Are you kidding me my FH thinks I have OCD cuz I look at it everynite. THe yeses I highlight in purple and the no's I highlight in Orange and I do the same with the response cards he thinks I am crazy. I also have put little marks next to the people who I don't think will come. Lets see how right we all are

Love the highlighter idea!

Mdillon Posted: May 27, 2006 11:25 PM

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I do that. I look at the list every day trying to make My RSVP date is Friday, June 2 and I'm still missing about 60 responses. It's driving me crazy

katewedding Posted: May 28, 2006 12:48 PM

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I am going through the same things, june 1st response, we are missing a LOT!

R&J0806 Posted: May 29, 2006 06:22 PM

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i just mailed out my invites and already have a clear pic in my mind of who will not come. i just analyzed it again today! But what's throwing me off is FIL's ppl.