I just have to ask....girls who are still waiting for your RSVPs..

beautyq115 Posted: May 24, 2006 09:53 PM

I just have to ask....girls who are still waiting for your RSVPs..

Do you look at your list each night and project who may or may not come....as you may have guessed I do this...sometimes a few times during the day......I am making myself crazy.....PLEAAAAAAAASE tell me other people do this

jes81276 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:06 PM

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I did this today for the first time, bc we NEED no's and we are now finding out that all these 'defitnite' no's are coming!

butterflybabe Posted: May 24, 2006 10:06 PM

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I do that. I look at the list every day trying to make sense of it. My RSVP date is Friday and I'm still missing over 70 responses. That makes me crazy

july06bride Posted: May 24, 2006 10:12 PM

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I am still waiting on MANY responses and it is driving me crazy...

cmbot Posted: May 24, 2006 10:17 PM

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Today was the last day for my responses and I have ablut 10 people who have not yet replied. Do I just aassume they are not coming or do I have to call them.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: May 24, 2006 10:18 PM

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KATHLEEN!!!! Stop driving yourself insane!!!!!
Whatever it will be it will be - there is nothing you can do about it! You are making yourself crazy for no reason!!
Cross each bridge as you come to it, trying to guess who is coming and who is not is going to drive you absolutely bonkers!

SweetCin704 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:31 PM

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Kathleen, I'm in the same boat, although trying not to stress. We sent out a few additional invites this week & basically that's it.

I do review the list daily though projecting who may/may not come.

We may end up way below....look at all the no's we have!!!!!!!! (lots of OOT)

Kim51103 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:31 PM

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We keep looking....but we still ahve a couple more weeks....lol!!!

Jen2999 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:35 PM

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People wait till the last minute. I have been getting more than usual this week but Im still missing about 50 cards

MsKitty1274 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:35 PM

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YES! And though it's hard, TRY not to do it. My response date is...tomorrow...and I am still waiting on...over 100 people (about 57 response cards)...and we're 68 BELOW our minimum...

BJandDan Posted: May 24, 2006 10:40 PM

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I don't do it several times a day, but I have done it. It worries me that we won't meet our minimum if the ones I think will come, say no.

RadioLau Posted: May 24, 2006 10:51 PM

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Yup, we do that on a daily basis!!

DUCKS2001 Posted: May 24, 2006 10:53 PM

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yes i rack my brains all night. i go if this person doesnt come.. we need such and such an amount.... my poor fiance.

i thought i was the only one. i am glad you girls do the same. I am so worried i wont make my minimum.

BJandDan Posted: May 24, 2006 10:58 PM

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I need to add.......

ElegantBride Posted: May 24, 2006 11:03 PM

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RSVP June 1st and 70+ have not responded
I have my list on my wall and check it everyday

MattsBride Posted: May 24, 2006 11:06 PM

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Hey date twin! I still am waiting on many more responses, but our RSVP date is not until June 25th. We're still in the 'it's so exciting to get responses in the mail' phase. Haven't been worrying about how many people will come at this point.

Kris516 Posted: May 25, 2006 12:22 AM

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Thank god RSVPs go to my mom's, b/c I would be obessing. With more than a week passed the RSVP date, we still have outstanding responses. So Rude.

One word of advidce: DO NOT START TABLE SEATING UNTIL THEY ARE FINAL OTHERWISE YOU'LL REALLY DRIVE YOURSELF NUTS.

bridy06 Posted: May 25, 2006 08:19 AM

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I am waiting on 150 responses yet still, every night, I try to figure out what the final # will be

AlliNMatt06 Posted: May 25, 2006 08:27 AM

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Yes, everyday!! My due date is today, and I am still missing around 15 cards. It is so annoying, because I don't understand people. The card has a stamp on it. Just write yes or No.