I JUST OPENED MOUTH...AND INSERTED BIG GIANT FOOT !=(

AHHHHHHHHHH !!!!!!!!!
*drops head in shame*

This very nice lady in my class TOTALLY looks pregnant (you see it comin' dontcha? ). She wears these floral flowy blouses, and TOTALLY has the cute little preggo shape. When I first saw her I thought 'Awe, how cute, I wonder when she's due'...

Well I just bumped into her (Im at school) and we were talking about whats due in class tonite.
and I decided to ask her about being 'due' mid-semester and how teachers respond/react to that.
(I REALLY dont wanna skip next semester)...
So I go 'are you due before this semester is over or after the semester is over ?'
and she goes 'Oh, In not due! Dont worry EVERYONE asks me that, because of a problem I had with my last c-section, this is what I look like'..
and I felt TERRIBLE and all I could say was 'Oh, im SO SORRY! Well youre adorable!'...and I actually had sat next to her, so we continued doing our online research for class tonite....

Can someone PLEASE come and staple my mouth shut ?? HOw am I going to face her all semester?
I feel so terrible I could cry, I hope I didnt hurt her feelings...

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Awwwwwww Anna. You are such a sweetie! We all stick our foot in our mouth at some time or another. I understand how you feel though. Since you are going to see her again how about maybe a little card just apologizing again. Or invite her out for coffee after class. You never know..maybe you will make a new friend.

Either way I wouldn't worry too much. I am sure that she understands, especially since it has happened to her before.

No stapling your mouth young lady. You have too many good things to say!!

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Awww Anna my love!

My mom did this once and my brothers baseball game. There was this woman who was on the heavy side but seemed to get heavier during the off season in all the right 'baby spots.' So, my mom went over to her and patted her tummy and was like awwwwww Im so happy for you, when are you due?? The woman took it great and said oh no hunny Im not, this is what a long winter does to you! I thought my mom was gonna die..I thought i was gonna die! LOL

We had to face her all season and the first time was a little awkward but after that we all forgot about it.

You are soooooo sweet and adorable all the time, I am sure she didnt even think twice about it. Dont worry, it seems bad now but it will be fine!

By the way, how are you feeling?!?! Im so happy for you guys if I havent already told you!!!!!

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don't feel bad Anna, I offered a non-preggo woman my seat, she just had a big belly, here I was trying to be kind and I ended up offending. It will be ok. At least you were not trying to be malicious

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Oops. It happens.

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Nothing wrong when it was completley harmless

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Aww Anna, I totally sympathize with you. I am sure she gets it all the time, or else she would have looked like this ----> Just move on and be as nice as you are!

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She said that everyone says it. Don't worry about it!!

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Thanks girls for the kind words
Wendy I did think of leaving her a note on her notebook saying 'sorry' in some way or another, but also sometimes 'They say' the longer you draw something out the worse it is.. She really did seem like it didnt phase her. and Noreen as you called it 'the baby spots' She TRULY has the shape of a prego lady, and then the triangular-maternity-like shape floral blouses she wears... She doesnt look 'just overweight', she just has that front belly.

And to think, I was going to ask her last week as a bunch of us were chatting (We had to work in groups for something) thank GOODNESSS i didnt!

Noreen, thanks for asking. Im feeling great! OMG about your mom and that lady!

I told John when I got home and after my first sentence 'This lady in my class LOOKS pregnant' he goes 'NO YOU DIDNT!!! '
and then he goes 'you should have covered by saying 'oh that looks JUST like one of my maternity blouses' and I go 'Honey, after saying something like that, there IS NO covering!'

I guess I'll just let it go. Since she seemed ok and continued to talk to me as if nothing happened...

Gnite girls.
Thanks for listening. youre the best!

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Anna some women DO look prego even when they are not!

It's an understandable mistake

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Awww...I know how you must feel, but she seemed to take it well. You couldn't have known!!

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ANNA

That was SUCH a harmless error! If that woman doesn't know you well enough now, eventually she will, and she will see what a true sweetie you are, and that you wouldn't dream of hurting someone's feelings. I'm sure that she didn't take offense, so PLEASE don't worry!

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Honestly, if it's true that EVERYONE has asked her that same question, than I'm sure she wasn't phased by it ALL - especially from someone who TRULY IS pregnant herself. Honest mistake, sweetie...don't sweat it!

But, if you said it to me....well, I'd be

And I have to admit I'm curious...I wonder what the 'problem' was with her c-section that makes her look like she's preggo now????

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Thanks guys..
Its almost like seeing a man's pot belly and we KNOW a mans not pregnant , but you know what I mean about the totally-in-front POT belly type thing, and then she wears these white A-line, cotton, floral blouses, your standard maternity type shirts! and when she walks or sits, all you see is this front belly. Not like she's big all around or really that much overweight...
Claud, I wondered the same thing, since I had a c-section and might very well have another one...

And she's in her early 40's Id say, and her youngest is 11. so she didnt JUST have a baby recently...

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Her youngest is 11?!?!?! Wow, I'm curious, too. Like Wendy said, maybe one more apology and then definitely put it behind you. I'm sure she realizes how badly you feel.

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I've done the same EXACT thing to an old school friend. OOPPS, hey if EVERYONE does the same thing to this lady maybe she should get the hint and start dressing like she wasn't pregnant. I know I would.

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Sorry but I NEVER ask anyone that question just in case they aren't or maybe they were and had a miscarriage. I know my stepmom tells me how hurt she was when someone asked her about 'when is the baby due' 2 weeks after she had my brother and she cried and felt awful.

And I don't think we should judge how she dresses- if she has a medical condition perhaps wearing tighter clothing or non-maternity clothing would be very uncomfortable or even painful for her. I feel bad that she has to deal with not only the medical condition but the emotional stuff as well. I am SURE she doesn't want to dress in her maternity stuff anymore..she might not have a choice.

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Michele, I did not get judgement in Anna comment at all, I got her trying to justify why she came to that conclusion. If Anna was trying to be deliberately hurtful then yes, but as we all know Anna, that is not in her disposition.

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Such a an easy mistake to make ... especially when you're pg!!! with all of that baby stuff on the brain anyway!!! But I'm sure she felt how sincere you were in your apology & how badly you felt. At least you weren't insensitive. I've heard some AWFUL comments by women. When a friend of mine announced her pg at another school, someone came to her and said ... Thank Goodness!! We were worried that you were putting on a lot of weight, dear.

But I think dropping it is best. It'll be ok after the initial awkwardness subsides!

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It wasn't Anna who I thought was being judgemental at all! Nubride said the women should 'get the hint' and not dress pregnant anymore. Anna was not who I was commenting on.