im not happy, im depressed, my family hates me, my best friend i try to talk to is bashing me. I just give up. i just want a job so i can go to work and not have to come back to this hell hole. i feel like my whole world is just crumbing from under me. i cant take it any more i cant
kabo0831
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Okay, I'm sure im not the only one to notice, but I feel like all you do is post about negative things in your life. That amt of negativity will only make you feel worse... All this seems pretty serious... Have you thought about talking to a professional about it all? Try not to feel so pessimistic about things. I think thats contributing to the depressed feelings you're having!
i feel the exact same way...im sorry you are going through a tough time, but why limit yourself to admin jobs only---there is always a supermarket or target hiring until you can get that job you want
and i would seriously suggest seeing a professional...i have been in a depression since my father passed away and i speak with a therapist once a week...i was on meds for a little bit but stopped taking them.
focus on the positives, like that adorable baby niece you have and try to overlook the negs
i hope this doesnt seem harsh, but you may need some tough love at this point
do you really think that you can save for a wedding working at a supermarket????
No one said that... It's just something that may help your mentality at least... Maybe take your mind off of things by keeping yourself busy! I think if the lack of money for a wedding is stressing you out.... either you need to downgrade stuff that you wanted or postpone the wedding until you can get yourself back on your feet and have the wedding of your dreams [
if i take a job working at a supermarket i lose my unemployment and then i have nothing,
kabo0831
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im not happy, im depressed, my family hates me, my best friend i try to talk to is bashing me. I just give up. i just want a job so i can go to work and not have to come back to this hell hole. i feel like my whole world is just crumbing from under me. i cant take it any more i cant
Call Hilary Kessler at Winston Staffing, 122 E. 42nd Street in Manhattan. She is wonderful recruiter who gets top quality jobs. Good luck.
great thanks
kabo0831
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Posted by ddnsp618
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Okay, I'm sure im not the only one to notice, but I feel like all you do is post about negative things in your life. That amt of negativity will only make you feel worse... All this seems pretty serious... Have you thought about talking to a professional about it all? Try not to feel so pessimistic about things. I think thats contributing to the depressed feelings you're having!
i feel the exact same way...im sorry you are going through a tough time, but why limit yourself to admin jobs only---there is always a supermarket or target hiring until you can get that job you want
and i would seriously suggest seeing a professional...i have been in a depression since my father passed away and i speak with a therapist once a week...i was on meds for a little bit but stopped taking them.
focus on the positives, like that adorable baby niece you have and try to overlook the negs
i hope this doesnt seem harsh, but you may need some tough love at this point
do you really think that you can save for a wedding working at a supermarket????
No one said that... It's just something that may help your mentality at least... Maybe take your mind off of things by keeping yourself busy! I think if the lack of money for a wedding is stressing you out.... either you need to downgrade stuff that you wanted or postpone the wedding until you can get yourself back on your feet and have the wedding of your dreams
we have plenty of money for the wedding it is just that i need to get out of this house that is all
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Posted by kabo0831
Posted by ddnsp618
Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
Okay, I'm sure im not the only one to notice, but I feel like all you do is post about negative things in your life. That amt of negativity will only make you feel worse... All this seems pretty serious... Have you thought about talking to a professional about it all? Try not to feel so pessimistic about things. I think thats contributing to the depressed feelings you're having!
i feel the exact same way...im sorry you are going through a tough time, but why limit yourself to admin jobs only---there is always a supermarket or target hiring until you can get that job you want
and i would seriously suggest seeing a professional...i have been in a depression since my father passed away and i speak with a therapist once a week...i was on meds for a little bit but stopped taking them.
focus on the positives, like that adorable baby niece you have and try to overlook the negs
i hope this doesnt seem harsh, but you may need some tough love at this point
do you really think that you can save for a wedding working at a supermarket????
No one said that... It's just something that may help your mentality at least... Maybe take your mind off of things by keeping yourself busy! I think if the lack of money for a wedding is stressing you out.... either you need to downgrade stuff that you wanted or postpone the wedding until you can get yourself back on your feet and have the wedding of your dreams [
if i take a job working at a supermarket i lose my unemployment and then i have nothing,
is your unemployment more money than you would make at a retail store, reception or waitressing? if so then stick with that but otherwise if its not then you dont lose bc its not like you have nothing, you wont have unemployment coming in but you will have a paycheck coming in.
Plus you said not working is depressing you, so that will help out.
Trust me i know how you feel, but ive also had to lower my standards and started looking elsewhere now. I have to meet with this lady soon to come into her company and work, its not what i wanted at all but at the moment what can i do.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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we have plenty of money for the wedding it is just that i need to get out of this house that is all
but u just said 'how can i save for a wedding working at a supermarket?' , but you have plenty for the wedding im confused
as for the unemployment checks... try finding a job in the 3 months that they give you (i think thats what it is) and if not, then take whetver you can get even if its in a supermarket... it'll at least help clear your mind
FH used greystone staffing for a temo agency... got into cablevision as a temp, and they liked him so much, they hired him and hes doin very well for himself, moving up the ladder... i would def try going through them
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im not happy, im depressed, my family hates me, my best friend i try to talk to is bashing me. I just give up. i just want a job so i can go to work and not have to come back to this hell hole. i feel like my whole world is just crumbing from under me. i cant take it any more i cant
Call Hilary Kessler at Winston Staffing, 122 E. 42nd Street in Manhattan. She is wonderful recruiter who gets top quality jobs. Good luck.
You won't regret calling Hilary. She got me my present job which I love.
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so sorry..u have to be strong and remember u r getting married to a wonderful man who loves u and thats what matters...all will turn around u just have to find that rainbow no matter how small it may be..if u want to talk please fm me
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I agree with the girls who say just get something for now to get out of the house .. even if it is just something that you are doing while looking for another job. . and if you don't want to take a job you will just need to leave. . maybe you could just volunteer somewhere while you have unemployment. . then you could not only get out of the house but get some real appreciation from folks who are happy to see you. . it is the hardest thing to move from a place of frustration . to take action if feeling crappy paralyzes you. but just try something. . good luck
IrishBrideASmiling
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Im sorry you are going through this. Why dont you try working at a restaurant as a waitress or a bartender. That way you will work at night and get great tips and leave your mornings opened for interviews?
