I know this has been done before but . . . Where are you sleeping the night before the wedding?

NewYorker09 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:10 PM

I know this has been done before but . . . Where are you sleeping the night before the wedding?

I'm debating this right now as my day is racing up and I can't decide. My mom's house is full of OOT family for the wedding so I know I won't sleep well if I stay there. It's really embarrassing, but I can't sleep well in my home without FH here . I sometimes have a hard time sleeping when I'm not in my own bed and I really want a good night's sleep before the wedding . . .

Soooo I'm thinking about just sleeping at home with FH. He tends to get up a little earlier than I do, so he could be up and out of here before I'm up so we won't 'see' each other that morning. Does that sound really bad? I wish my mom didn't have a house full of guests, my original plan was to just sleep there where I'd be comfortable!

Lsorrent Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:12 PM

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I'm having a slumber party with my BM's at the hotel.

LoveyDovey Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:13 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I'm having a slumber party with my BM's at the hotel.

this is what im planning on doing!

MrsVtoBe Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:16 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I'm having a slumber party with my BM's at the hotel.

I will probably do the same!

Iluvpoodles Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:19 PM

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family's house

JohnnyandGia Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:20 PM

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I having the same issue. My parents just sold there house and moved into a small apartment which will be filled with guests. I wanted to do the slumber party thing too but didn't want to pay for a hotel and I'm not sure if I will sleep or stay up all night talking to my girlfriends. I'm thinking of asking one of my BM to let have the bridal party stay at her place or just me if decide on no party. Think of friends who have places where you can crash.

StellaStar13 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:22 PM

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I am kinda up in the air about this right now. If we don't buy a house by then I will be staying in a hotel w/out FH (and my step-mom told me she will staying w/me........REALLY?!??!?!?!?!? negative, love my step mom & all that jazz but i dont need the woman breathing down my neck the night b/f my wedding)

If we do have a home (for the love of G-O-D PLEASE!!!)
I will be staying there.........w/out FH or my step mom

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:29 PM

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My house with any BMs who wanna slumber party. And my grandparents from OOT, which I'm psyched about cuz my gpa's wife is awesome and SUPER helpful! FH is getting the boot!

dctead Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:29 PM

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Will be sleeping at a hotel with my sisters!

Meggeese Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:46 PM

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id say stay at home and relax, dont have him stay..you really want to miss him and be extra excited to walk down the aisle to him!

Moonmist09 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:52 PM

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i'll be staying at my parents house and be getting ready there.
i won't see FH until I walk down the aisle.

i wouldn't want to sleep with him that night and have him leave early just so he won't see me. not fair to him since its his wedding day too and he can sleep a little later

NewYorker09 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:58 PM

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Posted by Moonmist09

i'll be staying at my parents house and be getting ready there.
i won't see FH until I walk down the aisle.

i wouldn't want to sleep with him that night and have him leave early just so he won't see me. not fair to him since its his wedding day too and he can sleep a little later

I should have clarified, I didn't mean I'd literally make him get up early, this is just our natural pattern. Even on the weekends when we 'sleep in' he's up before 8 and usually heads straight for the gym. FH is not a sleep in and have a lazy morning type of guy, which is why I figured I probably wouldn't even see him that morning. If I did see him, it still really wouldn't bother me, I'm much more concerned with sleeping well!

cleokizzy Posted: Apr 05, 2010 02:59 PM

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it's gonna be at a hotel but FI will have his own room.

nanpink Posted: Apr 05, 2010 03:00 PM

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slumber party - at a hotel

FutureMrsLots Posted: Apr 05, 2010 03:02 PM

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I'm sleeping at my parents house. My room is pretty much in tact since I moved out two years ago. I think they secretly want me to come home

FutureJOC Posted: Apr 05, 2010 03:04 PM

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I will be staying at my mother's for the 2 nights before the wedding (so after the rehearsal dinner I will go back to my mom's and FH will go home).

rengor Posted: Apr 05, 2010 03:37 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I'm having a slumber party with my BM's at the hotel.

That's what I'm doing too.

mag2010 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 03:53 PM

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As of right now I have reserved a room for myself at the Fox Hollow Inn. My plan is to take an Ambian and get up for a run in the morning and the first person that will see me is my hairstylist. I say that now but who knows how I will feel when the day comes.