OK, so as usual, I'm driving myself crazy over details instead of doing something useful like booking a vendor or something.
Anyway, my BP is quite large (28 including all the children of which there are 6), and I am now torn about adding another person.
I have started getting closer to one of FH's BM's girlfriends in the past couple of months and so, and I think that I would like to ask her. However, I want to be SURE because I don't want her to be like why is this girl asking me lol
I feel like our friendship will continue to grow, and when we're older we'll be like arranging play dates for our kids together. I'd LOVE to ask before the E-party (July 12) that way we can take like official BP pics. However, I want to be certain. Should I ask or no?
BTW: I do not CARE about the size of the BP. That isn't affecting my decision. The BP could be 2 people or the BP could be 700 people, I don't care, as long as everyone that is very important to me is in it.
MrsC2010
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If you are close with her and want her to be part of the bridal party then i def say you should ask, but I agree maybe wait a little to make sure you def want her bc once u ask u cant turn back!
SummerBride10
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I think only you can answer that one...
Could you see having your wedding WITHOUT her in the BP? If not, then def. ask her!
jcreilly
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If she is one Fh BM girlfriends will they stay together? If not they could break up right before your wedding or next month . Be prepared to deal with that ! Becasue on day like a wedding it will be emotionaly hard for her if they become exes and you dont need drama, just be really sure, maybe you can have her do a reading at the cermoney instead to include her and still have her at the RD and in the limo with the BP