i need a hug, just sad

this whole wedding process is turning into a NIGHTMARE....
my mother in law is a total b*tch, and NO i did not interact with her much when i was his girlfriend, im learning this now, when its too late....

im overwhelmed with exams [doing my master's]
and appointments for vendors

and FH is in charge of the honeymoon and 83 days away he still done NOTHING

i wish i was still his girlfriend

I'm so sorry !! Don't worry it will get better !!

i know having school exams and planning the wedding stinks

I'm so sorry that things are sh!tty right now, but everything will work out! Your wedding will be amazing, you'll do great on your exams and everything will come together - just take a deep breath (or five). I felt the same way tonight - on a bunch of the same issues - and I called up my best friend and gabbed with her for an hour. I highly recommend doing that tomorrow - I guarantee you'll feel a thousand times better.

And as for your fmil....I wish I had some advice to give. All I can say is that I understand. If you ever need to vent, or want to swap stories, feel free to fm me!

Don't worry things will get better

OMG!!! Are you my clone? I feel the same way and still do. My FMIL is a psycho. Luckily for me- she is not invited to the afterparty!

83 days is OK. FH was in charge and booked it in March? Just take it easy. I know it's hard bc there have been many times that I thought I was going to kill someone. It will all work out!

sent u FM

YOU GUYS are still awake? thought it was just me


don't worry- it will be OK. we all can feel that way- we all worry and stress- especially at night, for some reason- so HARD to sleep !!!

You are just feeling the stress of it getting closer
but it is very EXCITING

and HMs can be booked VERY last minute
DON't WORRY~~~

thanks, yea were awake

SAME in law issues HERE ~~~ just so you know- I can relate, too

HANG IN THERE~!~ Your wedding will BE GREAT~

TRY to do something for just YOU tomorrow-
try to do something relaxing???

i dont get why they cant be nice? she was once a daughter in law too

I KNOW!! got in a fight with MINE this weekend

she thinks I am being spoiled- the damn woman never even worked!! UGHHH

Is your FH supportive?? mine is... well... he says to IGNORE HER !!

you are just overwhelmed- exams do that~~~

think of all the GOOD THINGS, make a LIST of all the things you are excited about-

IF POSSIBLE? try not to show HER you are upset....

ANY ideas for a honeymoon for you guys??
maybe you can narrow t down to 3 places? then FH can decide? and BOOK IT ~~!!

i am sorry your feeling this way.....my fmil hasnt even offered to pay for my flowers in which i am doing my own cps i never really interacted with her either that much but have been polite and considerate. and his family has the nerve to get pissed off because i dont want them to bring there 20 plus kids under 10 so fhs sister said shes not coming.....whatever not a problem for me.

you are trying to accomplish two big events in your life and thas great!!! i know how you feel also with that i just completed my masters on line with university of phoenix and it was crazy hard trying to do that and just run my household normally


so here are hugs for you and even please dont hold back to ask for help from anyone.............

have a great day