i need a hug, just sad

Original post by luvabul

Apr 11, 2007 12:30 AM

this whole wedding process is turning into a NIGHTMARE....
my mother in law is a total b*tch, and NO i did not interact with her much when i was his girlfriend, im learning this now, when its too late....

im overwhelmed with exams [doing my master's]
and appointments for vendors

and FH is in charge of the honeymoon and 83 days away he still done NOTHING

i wish i was still his girlfriend

KRISTYRUSSELL Posted: Apr 11, 2007 07:29 AM

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Hang in there, it can only get better, good luck with your exams, then take a deep deep breath and then start with your vendors. As for you FMI, all I can say is even if you are so so pissed about it all and in tears, either talk to her or avoid dealing with her as much as possible and both of you do what you want for your wedding, Im not sure if she is paying for it, but if she is, you probably need to talk to her and he needs to understand that its your wedding, not his mothers, hold on tight, its a long ride, but remember keep your head up and dont let anyone get to you, they will and it will upset you at times, trust me, but just be a better person and say This Is My Wedding, so we are doing what we want, when we want and how we want........Good luck to you and all the best and remember to SMILE....

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Apr 11, 2007 08:15 AM

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I hope things get better for you!!!

LisanAshMay07 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 08:23 AM

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Feel better!

Marly Posted: Apr 11, 2007 08:37 AM

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Everything is going to be alright!!!!!

hmv12 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 08:40 AM

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I hope you feel better...

Becks526 Posted: Apr 11, 2007 08:41 AM

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cookiemonster Posted: Apr 11, 2007 09:09 AM

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Somebody should start a service people could hire to 'accidentally' push FMILs off of tall cliffs. If you ever want to vent or complain or scream, etc, PLEASE feel free to FM me - I totally know where you're coming from. The biggest lesson I've learned is just to keep moving forward and focus on the things that are making you happy. This is about you and FH and nobody should be allowed to ruin that for you! Like the other girls said, everything is going to be fine, you're going to get A's on all your exams and all the planning is going to go perfectly.