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I need advice!!!

Lori0517 Posted:

I need advice!!!

My FH and I are were going over our guest list, we have sept sat night. We had more then enough people but as of now it looks as though we may have to change to a different day. We may have not have enough people now to meet the mininium. Can anyone offer us advice? Fri night, or Sunday night? any input would be great.

WinterBride2005 Posted:

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Are you not sure about whether you should have it on a Fri or Sun because of the amount of people? I am not sure I understand your question.
Summer05 Posted:

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I think a friday night would be better b/c people will not have to get up for work the next morning.

Aga Posted:

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I am not sure I understand your question... I mean, if you made the minimum for Saturday night you should be fine for any other night since Sat. are usually the most expensive and in most places require higher minimum
Lori0517 Posted:

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Hi sorry guys,

My fiance and I had a running list when we booked wedding for a sat night. The communication between families is not great and a few other circumstances have made it so that we may not be able to make the sat min. I have never been to a weddnig on any other night but sat.

I dont know how people wil react to a fri night or sunday night. Any feedback would be great as to which may be better.
prncssrachel Posted:

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Well, I am having a Sunday night wedding. Granted the next day is the Fourth of July and just about everyone will be off, but I see nothing wrong with a Sunday night wedding. Same for Friday. I see nothing wrong with that. If I had to choose, I would go with the Sunday night wedding. The reason I say this is because I hate having to rush from work to a wedding and I always feel bad if I miss the church because I couldn't get out of work. JMO.
Can you negotiate the minimum with your hall for Saturday night? If it's not a huge amount of people that you are short for the minimum, maybe you might just keep the Sat. night and pay the difference? Just some suggestions.
WinterBride2005 Posted:

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I think Fri or Sun is fine. We are getting married on a Friday but almost came close to booking Sun. I have been to three weddings on a Friday, so far, and I have also been to weddings on a Sun. For me, I prefer Friday because we still have the weekend ahead.

Either days is fine. Just remember, as someone posted already, on a Fri., you may not have many people at the church because of work. Although, I am sure close friends and fam. will make arrangements. Mine have already mentioned that they will take the day off. I don't expect my guests to do that, but if they choose to great!!

On a Sunday, people may leave early because of work the next day. But, again close friends and fam. may take that day off. Whatever day you you guys choose will be the right day.

Lori0517 Posted:

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Thank you everyone for you advice. We are going to talk to hall and see what are options are. I appreciate everyones input. :)

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