I need Advice girls!!!

I would def not want them at my wedding!! I think you did the right thing. They probably wont come though If you do invite them. JMO
But you and FH have to make this decision together!
Good Luck!

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

You are not wrong. Stand your ground !!!!!!!

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ITA with everyone!!! no you dont want them there no they are rude and disrespectful as well so nooooooooo

You are 100% right but it's his wedding too. You can tell him how much it would bother you to have them there. And that you don't want to feel uncomfortable on YOUR wedding day... Ummm Is he forgetting that it's all about being happy and surrounded by people who love you that day... Not losers like them! who don't even talk to you.

NO WAY! put your foot down!

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Posted by chilly313

I completely understand how you feel - I wouldn't want people like that at my wedding either. Did you ask FH why he wants to invite them? Does it bother him that his friendship with Joe has kind of fallen apart? Is he trying to re-kindle the friendship. How close were they in the past? Bottom line is, if its really important to FH, I think you have to invite them (and maybe they won't come anyway). And then just try to stay away from them as much as possible that day, if they do come.

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He says he wants to invite them cuz it's the 'right thing to do because he's know him for so long.' Their entire friendship has been like this... The wife tells Joe crap about FH and Joe stops talking to FH for months at a time. Joe's been with his wife for like 7 years so their whole friendship since her has been like this. Joe is completely whipped and does whatever she says. Funny story is that I actually work with Jane..same building but different department, and i NEVER see her. She's so miserable and has zero friends...her whole bridal party was his female family members.

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Posted by jettahot

I would def not want them at my wedding!! I think you did the right thing. They probably wont come though If you do invite them. JMO
But you and FH have to make this decision together!
Good Luck!

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I really hope they wouldn't come..and FH says they prob won't.. So I said 'why would you give them the satisfactory to say no to you?' But there's just that small chance that they will come that will freak me out!!!!!

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Posted by rosatemp

lets say you invite them to make fh happy..chances are they wont come because she will say so...sorry

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I'm sure she wouldn't dare come...but i'm just scared of that chance that they will!!! LOL

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Posted by KrisBren2011

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Posted by rosatemp

lets say you invite them to make fh happy..chances are they wont come because she will say so...sorry

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I'm sure she wouldn't dare come...but i'm just scared of that chance that they will!!! LOL

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dont worry i highly doubt that..idk why fh would want to invite them since he was uninvited to theirs...guys are nuts

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Posted by rosatemp

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Posted by rosatemp

lets say you invite them to make fh happy..chances are they wont come because she will say so...sorry

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I'm sure she wouldn't dare come...but i'm just scared of that chance that they will!!! LOL

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dont worry i highly doubt that..idk why fh would want to invite them since he was uninvited to theirs...guys are nuts

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Exactly!!! He was first asked to be his Best Man!! Then not invited to the wedding LOL.

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

I think guys have a hard time holding grudges unlike us ladies.

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exactly cause if it was me or my fh i would say no till i was blue in the face...there is no way i would invite them

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Posted by KrisBren2011

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Posted by rosatemp

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Posted by rosatemp

lets say you invite them to make fh happy..chances are they wont come because she will say so...sorry

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I'm sure she wouldn't dare come...but i'm just scared of that chance that they will!!! LOL

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dont worry i highly doubt that..idk why fh would want to invite them since he was uninvited to theirs...guys are nuts

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Exactly!!! He was first asked to be his Best Man!! Then not invited to the wedding LOL.

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u should tell joe to have jane cough up his balls so he can become a man again

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Posted by rosatemp

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Posted by KrisBren2011

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Posted by KrisBren2011

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Posted by rosatemp

lets say you invite them to make fh happy..chances are they wont come because she will say so...sorry

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I'm sure she wouldn't dare come...but i'm just scared of that chance that they will!!! LOL

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dont worry i highly doubt that..idk why fh would want to invite them since he was uninvited to theirs...guys are nuts

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Exactly!!! He was first asked to be his Best Man!! Then not invited to the wedding LOL.

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u should tell joe to have jane cough up his balls so he can become a man again

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LMAO Totally! We've been saying that for years!