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I need advice M/H is not helping
junie20002
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:28 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:28 PM
I need advice M/H is not helping
Evening ladies, well this is my dilemma,I asked my younger sister to be my Matron of Honor, and she was thrilled!!! I asked back in August, now the months are draggin by and she still has not gone even too look for a gown for herself, now take in mind that she lives in Fl. I have even sent her pics of the dresses that I like colors that would make her look nice and even got addresses of the places she can go to I even found a David's Bridals there and she just always says to me' oh you know I wor until late, oh You know that colot does not look good in me' But if it was for one of her best friends she would have gone to China and made the dress herself. I just do not know what to do anymore
any advice ladies?
DebMaher
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:32 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:32 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
Say it straight, you were told by store that you need 19 weeks for this and 4 weeks for alterations and you wil need to place the order for her. MAKE UP DEADLINES!
angelbear217
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:37 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 10:37 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
I hear you. I have a similar situation with a bridesmaid. I know how frustrating it is.
slwh2005
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:06 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:06 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
Posted by DebMaher
Say it straight, you were told by store that you need 19 weeks for this and 4 weeks for alterations and you wil need to place the order for her. MAKE UP DEADLINES!
That's great advice, Deb. I would definitely give her deadlines.
junie20002
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:15 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:15 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
Another thing that is bothering is that any favor that I ask her he always has an excuse' Oh I'm not doing that ' 'no I'm not riding with t the teen bridal party' I am just soooo MAD at her !!! she is no help at all
junie20002
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:16 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:16 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
Posted by slwh2005
Posted by DebMaher
Say it straight, you were told by store that you need 19 weeks for this and 4 weeks for alterations and you wil need to place the order for her. MAKE UP DEADLINES!
That's great advice, Deb. I would definitely give her deadlines.[/QUOTE
Thanks It is hard to say anything to her or my mom they have the attitude of ' what ever ' grrrrrrrrrr
Robinella
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:22 PM+
Posted: Nov 19, 2004 11:22 PM
Re: I need advice M/H is not helping
lol That was me in my sisters wedding this past summer. Being a MOH when you are younger is hard...trust me...people expect you to do a lot and expect it to be an honor but when you've never done it before or you are not financially set its kind of a burden. Just try to talk to her and maybe let her know what you expect and dont expect of her...might ease her mind a bit!
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