as some of you may know, i bought two dresses. the first one i didnt really like any more and i fell in love with another dress so i bought that one. well, i'm not happy with my new dress either. i dont know what to do. i keep seeing dresses that i wish i had tried on before i bought the second dress. i feel like i want to cry. my fh would kill me if i told him this. i already spent over $3000.00 on both gowns, so i know getting another one is out of the question. what am i going to do?????? i never thought i would be like this, i mean i'm only going to wear the dress for a couple of hours for one day in my life, and i'm driving myself crazy.
Borricuamorena0905
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I say Pray on it! Even though u wish u tried on other dresses, remember, Everything that glitters isn't gold!!!! I say , follow ur first instinct!!! The mind is playing tricks on you!!
Bebalina
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Posted by Borricuamorena0905
I say Pray on it! Even though u wish u tried on other dresses, remember, Everything that glitters isn't gold!!!! I say , follow ur first instinct!!! The mind is playing tricks on you!!
i totally agree....try to remember what made you fall in love with ur dress
jimmysgrl
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Its true, its really hard to do, but I am not a believer that there is only 'one' dress. Keep that dress that you feel absolutely beautiful in and stop looking! Immediately! You are going to look stunning because....you are going to look stunning, you are the bride and you'll be in love. THere has to be a point where you say 'enough' and just fall head over heels in love with one of teh dresses in your hands....
I just posted on this. Don't buy another dress, I'm sure both of the dresses are beautiful. Just pick which one your heart likes best.
Oh, if you don't sell or return one of the dresses, you can always switch dresses at the reception.
MrsA814
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Keep on trying them on and playing with them and she what happens
suezboss
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STOP looking at other dresses! you obviously bought the ones you did for a reason...
If you don't go out of your way to 'look' at other dresses, you won't find any others you wish you had!
I have to stop myself ALL the time. I always see ones and am like 'oh, i wish I tried that one on before, etc...' but now once you have a dress (in this case 2) NO MORE LOOKING!
you'll be better off!
OctBride05
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thanks for your help girls. i dont have either dress at my house. the new dress i bought isn't even going to be in until august. i just have to stop looking at bridal magazines lol. i do love my new dress, i just get these moments where i wish i had tried others.