i need LIW prayers

depoc1011 Posted: Feb 20, 2010 09:48 PM

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tiffanykiss Posted: Feb 20, 2010 09:52 PM

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My prayers are with you.. I'm sure everything will work out..

regy_k Posted: Feb 20, 2010 09:57 PM

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I actually used to say to FH 'how will we handle life and the bigger things if we cant seem to get along now', but then I realized that actually going thru this process and trying to learn from the stress and the bad things makes us stronger and prepares us for more difficult things in the future. try to talk to him and explain that. its all about perception and the right view on things.

hope all will work out with u guys and that is just a momentarily lapse

Diana12 Posted: Feb 20, 2010 10:15 PM

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FutureMrsG Posted: Feb 20, 2010 10:21 PM

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DH and I had a tough time the months leading up to the wedding. There is so much stress! Have you considered premarital counseling? It was really helpful for us. In the end we were able to work through some of our fears and issues. If you are having a church wedding you could meet with the priest. I know we all think our issues are unique but DH and I were both surprised to find out that we were having 'normal' issues. Good Luck!!

Also take a look at the books by John Gottman:
//www.gottman.com/

bluj786 Posted: Feb 20, 2010 10:35 PM

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i hope everything works out! just take it slow for a little bit. maybe take a step back from all the planning and work things out.

tmcnair414 Posted: Feb 20, 2010 10:57 PM

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happychelle Posted: Feb 21, 2010 12:42 AM

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I hope things work out!

Sweetie51804 Posted: Feb 21, 2010 06:48 AM

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marinai7 Posted: Feb 22, 2010 08:47 AM

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I'm sorry sweetie. I hope everything works out!!!

GiannisWifey Posted: Feb 22, 2010 08:49 AM

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im sorry hun!! i really hope things work out!!

Jna2010 Posted: Feb 22, 2010 08:51 AM

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i think a good amount of people go through this maybe try taking a break from planning for a little bit... i hope everything works out for you

soontobecruz Posted: Feb 22, 2010 09:15 AM

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Praying everything works out for you....

brittndave Posted: Feb 22, 2010 09:15 AM

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mariedsgn Posted: Feb 22, 2010 09:16 AM

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aw! I am sure it will work out, the stress of planning gets to everyone!

MrsC2010 Posted: Feb 22, 2010 09:19 AM

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sorry you are going through this and i really hope everything works out for you. I agree with one of the other girls that posted about pre-marital counseling. Talking to someone neutral might be helpful for you and FH to work though some of the issues your having.

AdriandSteve Posted: Feb 22, 2010 09:19 AM

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lillisa Posted: Feb 22, 2010 11:28 AM

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thank you all so much for your support. it isn't looking to good. i have been crying since friday. we are meeting up today to go over the canceling process but i am going to try and get him to meet with our minister before we make any moves

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Feb 22, 2010 11:33 AM

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AandA2010 Posted: Feb 22, 2010 11:36 AM

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So sorry you have to go through this..I hope everything works out for you, try everything you can before you both give up the fight, this is such a stressful time, hopefully you both can move fwd together! best of luck!