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I would definitely be ticked off. I mean its bad enough booking the same day when they're aware that is the day of your wedding, but to then book the same reception place? NO GOOD!

First off, people in the family will basically be having to choose between which wedding to RSVP to, which is unfair and will cause family problems. But also, they're going to be going back and forth from wedding receptions.

I'm sorry, but NO. Not acceptable. And i can be ballsy enough, where i'd call them and let them know your concerns. But thats just me.

That is bull!!! Can one of FI's relatives talk to them about it?

Good Luck,
Kelly

Thanks girls for all of your support. Like i had said prior, the only guests that would be mutual were my FH's parents and maybe 2 more people...The thing is the father of the bride that is booking the wedding is my FH's godfather. I don't know...i think this takes the cake....I mean at first i was a little upset that they were thinking of booking their wedding 6 days prior to our date (considering that we booked soooo long ago and they got engaged 2 minutes ago), but then that the are now considering booking the SAME date and then when i found out the same hall...I really wanted to throwup
I should find out tom. what happened...i will definately let you all know. (I was hoping she was a LI wedding bride so she would see all of the responses to the situation and come to her senses... but no such luck!

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Posted by 7706bride

Thanks girls for all of your support. Like i had said prior, the only guests that would be mutual were my FH's parents and maybe 2 more people...The thing is the father of the bride that is booking the wedding is my FH's godfather. I don't know...i think this takes the cake....I mean at first i was a little upset that they were thinking of booking their wedding 6 days prior to our date (considering that we booked soooo long ago and they got engaged 2 minutes ago), but then that the are now considering booking the SAME date and then when i found out the same hall...I really wanted to throwup
I should find out tom. what happened...i will definately let you all know. (I was hoping she was a LI wedding bride so she would see all of the responses to the situation and come to her senses... but no such luck!

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I understand that they may choose an earlier date than you- FH and I are getting married a few months before friend's of ours who had their hall booked for 2 years now (we are in each other's BP) and made sure that we had a few month's buffer. They appreciated that we did this but we went with an earlier date bc it worked for us...

Despite that-obviously this couple doesn't have a special date in mind so they can at LEAST move it to another date. At least most of your guest won't overlap. Someone should remind them that you are having your wedding there at that date and that it might be nice for them to put their's off at least a week or two! I don't know how I'd handle this situation! I'm sorry you're going through this!

This is all how I felt. I would never in a million years do that. It would just never cross my mind....I do not think most people would...it is soo thoughtless....I am dying to know what they decided...maybe by tonight...i can't wait to give you girls the info!!!!
People are so obnoxous and not classy at all sometimes!!!
My FH said they would not do that...he's is sooo pissed too, but keeps saying when it comes down to it, he does not believe that they would do it...we'll see...we are just sooooo annoyed!!! My whole FH's side is sooo annoyed!!!

I'm so sorry you are going through this! I can't imagine anyone with a nice bone in their body would even consider doing something like that.

Please keep us posted.

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Posted by Frustrated Bride 2 Be

I'm so sorry you are going through this! I can't imagine anyone with a nice bone in their body would even consider doing something like that.

Please keep us posted.

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I definately will

Why would anyone want to do that.

They would be inviting everyone that is going to your wedding well on your FH's side.

People would be torn at where to go.

Everyone knows your wedding is already booked and that FH's relative is doing the wrong thing!

I am sure it won't happen