I need opinions please

E-n-K Posted: Nov 19, 2006 10:47 AM

I need opinions please

I have invited my mom to be my MOH and my 2 closest friends to by my BMs. I am back and forth between asking another friend to be a BM and asking my aunt. I feel a little weird about having 2 women over 40 in my BP, but FH and I don't have any sisters or female cousins that we are close to. I don't want to offend anyone, but do you think it would be weird if I had my aunt also? Or should I ask my friend? Sorry if I sound like an a** but I really don't want to hurt either's feelings.

JenMike331 Posted: Nov 19, 2006 10:49 AM

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i would have to say having ur aunt would probably make her very honored and i think it would be a nice touch

kflan75 Posted: Nov 19, 2006 10:51 AM

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Ask who you 'know' will be there for you ... in years to come.... not just thru the wedding planning.

E-n-K Posted: Nov 19, 2006 11:21 AM

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Thanks ladies, you're right.

FlowerBride Posted: Nov 19, 2006 12:03 PM

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my mom is my MOH too. she was surprised and happy about it!

RadioLau Posted: Nov 19, 2006 12:28 PM

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My SIL had 1 of her aunts in the BP and 1 of her cousins in the bridal party. The aunt was WELL over 40 and the cousin was close to 40. You choose the people that mean the most to you. That's the most important part of the BP.

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Nov 19, 2006 12:31 PM

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Posted by JenMike331

i would have to say having ur aunt would probably make her very honored and i think it would be a nice touch

I agree my aunt is acyually going to be my matron of honor

snydl40 Posted: Nov 19, 2006 04:42 PM

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I am 23 and one of my aunts is my Matron of honor (she's 44) and my other aunt is a BM (she's 42). It doesn't matter to me.

ama1771 Posted: Nov 19, 2006 08:26 PM

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i think it's a great idea, and it's great that you would consider it.

miss nee Posted: Nov 19, 2006 08:43 PM

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WELL MY AUNT IS 46 .AND SHE IS MY MOH .IT WAS A LIL DIFFICULT AT FIRST BECAUSE I FELT THE SAME WAY ABOUT THE AGE THING ..BUT WE ARE VERY CLOSE .SO HEY WHY NOT