I have 2 friends who I didn't ask to be in my BP yet..
One I was worried it woule be a strain bc she is also getting married and probally getting PG, and another friend I wasn't sure she would take so serious bc all she can talk about is CLUBS and BOYS!! One is so much of a help I would be lost without her and her friendship and the other is so into my wedding and trying to help I feel like a Jerk for underestimating her..
I still want to ask them and not sure how to do so?
Should I give them both the poem I gave the others with a small note from me and Ron telling them how IMPT they are to us.. or ME!
HELP!
WithThisRing
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you do what makes you happy.
jennyg
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That sounds like a great idea...it's not like you're getting married in two months and just decided now! There is still plenty of time and lots to do but I would make sure you ask them before your e-party. No reason you can't ask them with the same poem/card. I'm sure they will be honored and excited about it.
Ronnie&Theresa
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Ahh look who it is..
Where have you been?
WithThisRing
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Chuck and I had to pay car insurance, drop off the laundry and stop at the supermarket.
When we got home there was a message from Tim how he was relaxing in his yard basking in the 80 degrees. So you know Chuck had to call him and tell him to shove it. LOL
LnP2003
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hey cookie... if they are who you want then ask them... just make sure that the girl that you want in your BP who is gonna be preggo gets measured with the bridal place knowing that she's gonna be preggo!
NYCMeghan
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ask them!! I'm sure they will be flattered!
Ronnie&Theresa
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BUMP!!!
jennbaby
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ask them! My MOH is prego we just ordered her dress THIS saturday we had to wait to see how big she'd be
LnP2003
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go for it blonde bombshell!!!!!!!!
Sassy
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Hey T I would definitely ask her and send the same poem. Luckily it's before your E-Party, so you could still announce her. But wait - are the programs all done already?
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ASK THEM....they are not going to care WHEN, they are going to care more about the sentiment....
They will be so happy!!!!!!!!!
StayandJohn
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I just asked another girl to be a BM, and I'm getting married in 3 months
Ronnie&Theresa
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I Just asked one and she SCREAMED so loud on my phone.
I said WOAH.
She said I haven't been in a wedding or too a wedding since I was a flower girl at age 5..
WOAH!
No programs..
Don't ask......
I hate my inlaws!
Sassy
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OK - I wont
That is so sweet, aw you must've made her soooo happy. That's my girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!
LnP2003
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good girl - she musta been sooooo happy!!!!!!!!
Ronnie&Theresa
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Well one of them Reads here so I am sure she has some idea..
I am shy at this!
Sassy
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T --------- why are you shy? Anyone would feel HONORED that you asked them
LnP2003
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you are amazing.... at times you have the biggest set of ba11s, and then other times you are soooo shy - you are just soo cute!
