I need some help...ASAP

So today is my cousin graduation party and FH was going all along til this morning. Now we are fighting cause he is saying he doesnt want to go and waste his day. Mind you we are going @ 3:30 and leaving in 2-3 hrs tops. I will be taking my mom and she cant stay very long. So what is the big deal!!!
I would like to also throw in that he is not a family guy, his parents didnt raise him that way and they arent close with either sides of the family.
Do I say fine F uck you stay home? Drag him there? Or like I said to him: you dont go I will never go to your family functions.

Funny thing is we are handing out out STDS to the family today!!!! Oh yes here you go but, FH was a BIG BABY didnt want to come, he stayed home to play his video games.

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Posted by Future Pepper

aww! I'm so sorry!!!! If it it were me I'd probably drag him (I know it sounds bad but he's part of the family now - I think he should at least make an appearance!)

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I feel that way also, you are going to be part of the family you should be there. But he wasnt raised this way!!! EEEERRRRR

I wouldnt necessarily be mad at him because well, he wasnt raised that way, like you said BUTTTTTT def tell him how much you would love to have him there and how hurt you will be if he does go. Maybe even ask him if there is something you can do for him in return (like play a video game with him hehe)

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Posted by Aristotelina

I wouldnt necessarily be mad at him because well, he wasnt raised that way, like you said BUTTTTTT def tell him how much you would love to have him there and how hurt you will be if he does go. Maybe even ask him if there is something you can do for him in return (like play a video game with him hehe)

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I wish I could be that nice, . I just dont like that he promises me and breakes it. I go to his and then he does this to me, I think that is wrong. I dont celebrate fathers day, my dad passed, and I went to his house out of respect!!! NEVER AGAIN!!!! I told him to tell his mom I will never celebrate anything with them again and her B-day is coming up, OH WELL....this is how you raised your son. Sorry I am just soo mad and he doesnt care about my feeling right now cause he is only thinking of himself.

Oh wait, then that is a different story!!!!! He is DEF being a brat!!! I still say tell him again that you really want him there and throw in a guilt trip--he DID promise you!!

If he doesnt comply, make him a nice cup of coffee and put in 2-3 drops of visine (instant laxative!!!) That way, his stay home will be shi*ty--literally!!!!!!!!

Just kidding!!!!








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Posted by Aristotelina

Oh wait, then that is a different story!!!!! He is DEF being a brat!!! I still say tell him again that you really want him there and throw in a guilt trip--he DID promise you!!

If he doesnt comply, make him a nice cup of coffee and put in 2-3 drops of visine (instant laxative!!!) That way, his stay home will be shi*ty--literally!!!!!!!!

Just kidding!!!!








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I wish we lived together to do that. I just spoke with him and he doesnt care what I say. So F uck him!!!!

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Posted by Tori9299

My FH hatesssss family stuff. I love leaving his A$$ home, sometimes it is so much easier then hearing him complain.

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You right about that but, I always think to the future when we have kids.....oh daddy stayed home and I will not go to his families if he doesnt go to mine, kids or not....he needs to grow up!!!!

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I wish we lived together to do that. I just spoke with him and he doesnt care what I say. So F uck him!!!!

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UGHHHHHHH!!!! Omg, how FRUSTRATING!!!!

Well, Im sure what goes around will come around. He is going to be asking you for something sometime soon and then you can get your revenge!!

Im sorry though

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Posted by Aristotelina

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I wish we lived together to do that. I just spoke with him and he doesnt care what I say. So F uck him!!!!

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UGHHHHHHH!!!! Omg, how FRUSTRATING!!!!

Well, Im sure what goes around will come around. He is going to be asking you for something sometime soon and then you can get your revenge!!

Im sorry though

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Thank you....funny cause he just called me to tell me again he isnt going and I told him to tell his mom i am sorry but, her b-day is coming up and I wont be there...he just flipped out...what goes around comes around is right!!! Thank you

this is what i say to FH...you dont want to deal with my family, but have to still go because i dont want to deal with YOUR family, and i STILL go

if that made sense lol

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Posted by meli722

this is what i say to FH...you dont want to deal with my family, but have to still go because i dont want to deal with YOUR family, and i STILL go

if that made sense lol

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Yes it makes sense but, he doesnt see it that way...now he is saying he wants to end things

talk about a severe case of male PMS (pussy machismo syndrome)....

i went through this with one of my exs that REFUSED to go to any of my family functions, yet i had to be at all of his family's crap.

more often than not he loosened up and came... just give him some time.

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Posted by mdawg

talk about a severe case of male PMS (pussy machismo syndrome)....

i went through this with one of my exs that REFUSED to go to any of my family functions, yet i had to be at all of his family's crap.

more often than not he loosened up and came... just give him some time.

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No trust me we are fighting bad now

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Posted by dazies1011

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Posted by mdawg

talk about a severe case of male PMS (pussy machismo syndrome)....

i went through this with one of my exs that REFUSED to go to any of my family functions, yet i had to be at all of his family's crap.

more often than not he loosened up and came... just give him some time.

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No trust me we are fighting bad now

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im sorry to hear that christine :( i think its something deeper than him not wanting to go...does he always freak out about going places?