So my FH still hasn't asked the guys to be in our bridal party. He says that he doesn't want to ask because it is really gay for a guy to ask another guy to be in his bridal party. Do you girls have any ideas on how he can ask them?? Thanks!!!
DnellD809
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HMM..my FH was just like...DUDE...you're my best man....you're in the wedding! COOL..YEA
Guys are funny!
beachbum05
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yeah - same here!!
men.
failurebydsign
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tell me about it..im freaking out taht he hasnt asked anyone yet..but i guess if he insists on waiting longer its ok..but its 11 months away
snowcutie82
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I made little cards in the shape of the top part of a tux....fh was supposed to attach them to each person's beer as he handed it to them (the same day i asked my girls)....except instead he just flat out asked ppl and not all at the same time...so i made cards for nothing...booo...they look super cute! i need to take pics and upload them hahaha. i think i made two ppl take them home. AND he still has to ask one guy...but he's in the navy so its understandable.
korndoggie
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We asked the guys together to eliminate the 'gayness factor'. Except my brothers, I asked them on my own...
gfield101
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If he thinks it's so 'gay' just tell him to ask them if they want to drink with him in the limo and bridal suite on the wedding day..
They'll obviously say YES and he'll say ok you're in the bridal party, dont forget to rent a tux!
Kris10546
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My FH called each one of them and said 'Bro, do you want to be a groomsman? Cool'
luvabul
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same HEReee...
xXxNovember08xXx
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Posted by DnellD809
HMM..my FH was just like...DUDE...you're my best man....you're in the wedding! COOL..YEA
Guys are funny!
thats what FH did !
Mizzdimple
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We had a dinner party and asked those who came. For those who was not able to make it, we took out to dinner and asked.
As far as my sister...I was like yea u know already lol!
truelove5803
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That's what FH did. Him and his brother were working on his truck, and in the middle of nowhere FH )still working on the engine...not even looking up) said Oh yeah, bro, your my best man....don't screw it up. His bro(not looking up either) replied....'K'
ant n tilde
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i think i have the best story that i have posted before
moments after we get engaged FBIL pulls me to the side and says something like 'you know how i feel about marriage but if my brother has to marry anyone, I guess I am glad it is you' ( he has a wife and three kids - and was totally serious)
so FH overhears that and is like 'wow I hope you don't say that in your best man speech' and the rest is history.
he still hasnt asked his GM - he is going to ask his cousin. . . but he will just call bc thats how his cousin asked him
Kimbalina
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I am bumping my post on how we asked our BP,, also pics in my album!
missigreg
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My FH felt the same way. What he did was.... had me start a conversation about the wedding in front of them... and then was kinda like ya know you are in the wedding, so dont amke any plans for that weekend...
and then the guys jsut started talking about it.
NYBride2008
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My FH asked his side by giving them cigars. I made cigar wraps with his picture and FH's wrap said CEP - chief executive player and the groomsmen's wraps said Board Member Player's Club. That's what my Groomzilla insisted on... so i went with it!!
