I need some LIW love

lisalisa27 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:12 PM

I need some LIW love

My trip to Barron's today with my mother was an absolute disaster. She is so impatient. I was trying on tiaras and asking questions in regards to veils. We are not even there a good hour she starts complaining, that they all look alike and Im so hard to please etc etc. For the past couple of months I have been trying to include her and my dad in the planning process and they have been so negative with everything I chose. My mom I thought would have been more supportive but Im starting to feel as though she's not interested in any of this.

I need hugs.

vmystique33 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:16 PM

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Im sorry sweetie!! Im getting the same thing from my mom I thought she would be more into it than she is so i choose now to do things on my own and when i find something i show everyone after

Pinkiegirll07 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:16 PM

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aprlflwr Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:17 PM

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and a

lisalisa27 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:19 PM

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Posted by vmystique33

Im sorry sweetie!! Im getting the same thing from my mom I thought she would be more into it than she is so i choose now to do things on my own and when i find something i show everyone after

Yes I think this will be route as of now. I had to learn the hard way and get my feelings hurt. But oh well.

Thanks for the love ladies.

vmystique33 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:19 PM

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Posted by lisalisa27

Posted by vmystique33

Im sorry sweetie!! Im getting the same thing from my mom I thought she would be more into it than she is so i choose now to do things on my own and when i find something i show everyone after

Yes I think this will be route as of now. I had to learn the hard way and get my feelings hurt. But oh well.

Thanks for the love ladies.

Your welcome and good luck!!

Marchbride07 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:22 PM

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Oh girl I feel ya! My mother is the same way! She says whatever I want and then when I make a decision she stares at me with huge eyes like she is in shock I would do anything like that. When I asked her for help with the guest list she was like blah blah blah and when it ballooned to 217 she flipped. She hated my invitations (they are gorgeous!) and when I booked the hummer for my BP my mom said: 'Why are you doing this to me?? Why are you embarassing me by getting that limo?' It is so aggravating...

You are not alone!!! Lots of hugs!

kitty1224 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:24 PM

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I know what you are going through, same here

hayleyandsteve Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:40 PM

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Summer842 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:42 PM

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MF9282 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:44 PM

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Awww I am sorry to hear that. Try your bets to not let it take away any of the excitement for you!!!

Athee07 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 05:51 PM

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GabrielleandJohn Posted: Dec 29, 2006 06:21 PM

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Did you find something you love? The Barron's are awesome. They didn't have exactly what I wanted but they made it!

JIFFY Posted: Dec 29, 2006 06:23 PM

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cmrcmr0430 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 06:26 PM

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Girlfriend!!! You really need a hug...I am going through the same thing. Don't feel like you are the only one!! My Mom is very negative and wants everything done her way. I told her that if she wants it, pay for it!! Hang in there. Do whatever you want and don't feel bad doing it!!

HelenZ Posted: Dec 29, 2006 07:03 PM

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I feel your pain!!! My mom doesn't really care about any wedding details- she didn't come with me even once to look at dresses. But at the same time, I know she will aggravate me, so it's kind of better! I bring my sis & my best friend, and they are all the support I need.

Future Mrs. Posted: Dec 29, 2006 07:05 PM

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lisalisa27 Posted: Dec 29, 2006 07:06 PM

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You girls really make me feel like Im not alone. I love ya. I hope to see some of you at the wedding of the year.

PegaLega Posted: Dec 30, 2006 01:57 AM

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Im sorry that she is being that way-I would bring someone else that can be excited with you and want to be there and when you choose something then bring her. Otherwise, she may upset you