With less then 2 months to go, last night while we where sleeping the phone rang at 1am. FH answered the phone and it was a friend of mine from highschools wife.......TELLING MY FH THAT I AM SLEEPING WITH HER HUSBAND!!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME....I have been with FH almost 4 years now and I have NEVER cheated or had the urge to cheat on him... So needless to say he is not talking to me and I am sick to my stomach like no other....
I cant believe this is happening to me. Please pray that he will come home from work today and actually want to talk to me so I can reassure him that I would never do anything to hurt our relationship.
Just to add alittle more detail... I havent seen the kid in 12 years...since high school...but about 4 months ago I got a myspace page and he contacted me and we talked through email just ONCE and she told FH that she had the emails and it was all me talking dirty to him....(I cancelled my myspace account now which is ok with me) Are you KIDDING me again.....that is NOT like me so I dont know what she did to these emails but with that this is what I am dealing with now and I am not a very strong person so I dont know if I can deal with this.
Update: Since I have gotten a few FM wondering how things are I will just post a quick message.....FH and I are working through this, he believes that I did NOTHING wrong and things are starting to get back to normal......I found out today alot more info about this girl and apparently she has major trust issues with her husband and totally goes crazy anytime she sees that he may have talked to another girl.......Anyway so that I dont make this post any longer then it already is.....I just want to say THANK YOU to all you wonderful girls for alll your HUGS & SUPPORT....and just know what goes around comes around.....she better not come into my life again or she will have more problems then she ever wanted. LOVE YOU GUYS
Jennifer907
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OMG talk about psycho! Hope everything works out for you and your FH! Clearly this woman and maybe even your old friend have some serious issues. I wonder if he's telling her these things to get her mad. Doesn't make sense, but some people are just effed up!
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Ohmigod! Where in the world would she come up with that information! And why you?? That's bizarre! Don't worry- you and FH will talk this out. I'm sure he knows you better than that and is just shaken up. But if I were you, I would contact both that guy and his wife to find out what the hell is wrong with them!
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First off I am sorry you are going throught this . This woman has problems also maybe your old friend does. He may have gotten caught and said it was you when in reality it may be someone close to her. He figured she wouldn't call you and she did. Make him fix it. Second why did Fh believe her. He should of told her that its not true and hung up the phone. Either that or told her that his FW is not that kind of girl and if he's wrong prove it. I hope it all gets worked out soon
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That is horrible hang in there and try to clear it up. Do you have the old email you sent him or he sent you?
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Well since you KNOW you are not guilty of anything try not to stress..this chick has no proof because there is nothing to prove, and hopefully your FH will calm down, take a moment, and realize that he's marrying you because he loves and trusts you...and that communication is key in keeping that going...good luck!!!!
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I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Im sure everything will work out. You guys have come this far, Im sure he'll understand once he calms down.
ksl268
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OMG What a psycho! This makes me very
I hope everything is resolved quickly
Elise&Matt
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OMG! R U Serious!!!! I would totally flip on her!!! U need to sit down w/ FH and make time to deal with this...Good Luck hun and here are some more
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I was so sad to read this post! What a thing to go through TWO months before your wedding! I told my FH about it and he said your FH should investigate before he jumps to conclusions. Sure, he may be initially upset, but if he knows you well enough, he'd look into it first before he thinks it's true. I really hope he does before anything bad happens. I will keep you in my prayers. God knows the truth, and I pray He reveals it very soon, so you can truly enjoy your wedding with no headache or heartaches. If this woman is set to hurt you for some wierd reason, I pray God reveals her true intentions so you can move on and your FH can put his heart at peace. Please keep us posted!!!
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What a B!OTCH! Shes just a jerk, I hope your FH sees that and comes home.
sunflower13
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That biotch sounds LOCO!!!! Why do people feel the need to start DRAMA. Maybe she is just jealous of you and FH. I hope it all works out. Keep us posted
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Yes I agree FH should ghive you a chance to explain and you will both be able to work it out. Everything will be OK once you two have a moment to talk.
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wow!!!
the sad thing is... i CAN believe that someone would do something like this.
some people, especially women, want to lash out and hurt people when they, themselves, are in pain.
i'm so sorry this is happening to you. i'm especially sorry that fh has actually given this woman's toxicity the time of day. then again, he just might be trying to sort it all out in his head and heart.
i pray that it all works out for the best.
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Sorry to hear this but be strong and wait till things cool off a bit and speak to your FI. About your friends girl she is a psycho *****. I'm sure everything will be back to normal give it some time.
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OMG some people have balls im so sorry you have to got through this i hope fh realizes how much you love him and that you would never do this to him and that this chic is phsyco good luck and keep us updated
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THANK YOU EVERYONE for ALL your HUGS AND SUPPORT...I hope we get through this....I will keep you all posted.
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First off.....
Second, I totally agree with the other girls who said to confront this biotch with her husband and your FH. This woman is psycho and since you know you didn't do anything, she won't have any proof to prove anything.
I am sooooooo sorry that you are going thru this such a short time before you're wedding. I'm sure you have enough on you're plate that you didn't need someone else's bullsh!t You guys are in my thoughts!!
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I really dont understand some people. I hope your FH see's that all of this is BS. I wish you the best of luck. I have faith that it will work out for you.
