With less then 2 months to go, last night while we where sleeping the phone rang at 1am. FH answered the phone and it was a friend of mine from highschools wife.......TELLING MY FH THAT I AM SLEEPING WITH HER HUSBAND!!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME....I have been with FH almost 4 years now and I have NEVER cheated or had the urge to cheat on him... So needless to say he is not talking to me and I am sick to my stomach like no other....
I cant believe this is happening to me. Please pray that he will come home from work today and actually want to talk to me so I can reassure him that I would never do anything to hurt our relationship.
Just to add alittle more detail... I havent seen the kid in 12 years...since high school...but about 4 months ago I got a myspace page and he contacted me and we talked through email just ONCE and she told FH that she had the emails and it was all me talking dirty to him....(I cancelled my myspace account now which is ok with me) Are you KIDDING me again.....that is NOT like me so I dont know what she did to these emails but with that this is what I am dealing with now and I am not a very strong person so I dont know if I can deal with this.
Update: Since I have gotten a few FM wondering how things are I will just post a quick message.....FH and I are working through this, he believes that I did NOTHING wrong and things are starting to get back to normal......I found out today alot more info about this girl and apparently she has major trust issues with her husband and totally goes crazy anytime she sees that he may have talked to another girl.......Anyway so that I dont make this post any longer then it already is.....I just want to say THANK YOU to all you wonderful girls for alll your HUGS & SUPPORT....and just know what goes around comes around.....she better not come into my life again or she will have more problems then she ever wanted. LOVE YOU GUYS
kat74
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I am sooo sorry... Obviously there are trust issues in your HS friend's relationship...You should talk to his wife and see if you can set things straight with her.... WOW>>>>I am so sorry you have to deal with ths at such a beautiful time in your life..but you can stay strong-- fight for what is yours.
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I just DO NOT understand some people! She clearly has major issues. This will all get worked out though!
TLC1018
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BunnyBride
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OMG..what a nightmare. Stay strong girl. Your FH has known you long enough that hopefully ,when he finally calms down, he will realize what ******** this is..until then here are some and for you both.
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people are evil!!!!!!! I really hope your FH trusts you and knows better!!! xoxoxo Kitty
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OMG soooo sorry to hear this Maryanne ~ It will get better! He will come home and everything will be ok ~ I will send some huggies and some prayers your way... I hope everything works out!
OK Maryanne- here's the deal. I need her address. You don't know nothing!
by the way you have FM.
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I'd have a hard time not going over to the wife's house and bopping her in the head But I'm sure everything will be fine when you and FH get the chance to talk.
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That is completely ridiculous!!!! I am so sorry this happened!! Some girls are so fricking jealous!!!! She prob saw that HE MESSAGES U and is a nutty girl and made up that lie. U should give her a piece of ur mind. Helllllooooo ur gettingmarried u don't want her BF !!
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Whats her address? I'd like to pay her a visit!! Thats all I have to say.
cmrcmr0430
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What the hell is wrong with her!!!???? I feel so bad for you Here are a bunch of hugs!!!
I hope you feel better and FH understands and realizes that you never did any of those things...
thats crazy!! Well since u really didn't do anything, I'm sure she probably has nothing against you and was just mad...it'll all work out in the end!! I would call this guy up and ask him to explain himself tho!!
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OMG...........What is wrong with people???!!! That is just one of the worst things I've ever heard anyone doing to someone else....
I'm so sorry!! FH should believe you though...
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OMG!!!! Good luck!!!!
lilqtpie2181
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OMG that is horrible! why would someone do that??? i know u posted this yesterday.. any updates with FH?
MrsMagoo
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Some your way first...
Second, I really hope that you and FH sat down last night and talked about this. If you have been together that long, then there is a reason and he should be able to trust you. This girl has no right to do what she did, but in the end I'm sure that it will bite her in the AZZ!!
Let us know what happens!
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Oh MY GOODNESS
I just read this...
what kind of psycho does this?? she has some serious issues!!
I hope your FH realizes that she is a complete liar and psycho maniac for doing this and that he listens to you when you talk to him about it. definitely call her husband while your FH is there so it can all be cleared up firsthand. Good luck. And keep us posted.
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OMG!!!!!!!!!! when I first read this I thought you were talking about a nighmare. I don't understand what is wrong with people these days. I would not worry about here, if she calls again I would tell her that I am going to charge her with harassment if she calls again. In the meantime I would just talk to FH. The whole thing was just a shock to him and I am sure when he comes home it all will be ok. Is there any chance that her husband can clear this situation up?
